Bullshit

Calling this bullshit is like insulting bullshit. This is far far worse than bullshit.

And must not return.

This is not bullshit. Bullshit is the intent to deceive. This is more like severe disease of the thinking.

They heal it because you excommunicate them from your life.

no they heal you by leaving.

If you're waiting and expecting the person who broke your heart to also heal it, you're only increasing your own pain