Yet another activity where "talking to people" is an unfortunate requirement

Not too tough, honestly.

what is this game, it looks oddly familiar and really cool.

1. Be realistic, if you're afraid to talk to her, you don't stand a chance
2. Lose romantic interest
3. Be able to talk to her without that emotional charge
4. Become friends
5. Ask her out eventually
Boom you did it! Or you made a friend, which is also sweet.