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the_grinch
· 5 years ago
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You also have to care about your partners wants and needs and not just your own
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tbag2win
· 5 years ago
Say it louder for the people in the back
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terror
· 5 years ago
Oh I'm so saving this for someone I know!
guest_
· 5 years ago
Actually... they might. But- the odds are not in your favor. If you actively seek to find a partner, you should talk to people, go on dates, attend social events, hobby groups, blah blah. Be the best you that you can be. Add value to yourself through your career, skills and abilities, life experience and stories. Have something to offer another human being and require them to offer something for you as well. Don’t just grab on to anyone who will have you or anyone who seems available. Create goals for yourself and ambitions and make those your primary focus. It’s easier to find a person when you have a home and security and skills and love your life than it is to find someone and then grow those things. But love happens when it happens, and it tends to happen when we least expect. Real lasting and sustainable love tends to grow instead of being some intense burning like in movies or TV that only has to last a few hours or seasons. Be the best version of you and get out there.
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terror
· 5 years ago
@guest_ Actually, I'm married, but I agree with your advice. There is a guy pestering me online who only needs someone to talk all day long about how he's lonely and he's gonna kill himself, but shoots down any and all advice given to him. Always finds an excuse for everything. So I actually meant to send this to him, lol.
guest_
· 5 years ago
Lol. @terror- no worries. I’m sorry to. When I said “you” I didn’t mean you as in the poster. I meant “you” as in the reader. So I apologize for the misunderstanding and didn’t mean to seem as though I was directing my comment to you but towards the audience the meme is directed towards. I’m also sorry to hear of you being pestered. Some people are thick headed, but the symptoms you describe also sound like depression. If this guy is depressed or has a condition like manic depression the best advice in the world will fall on deaf ears because depression can make us eschew logic and see no way out of what we see as a hopeless situation. It isn’t your duty to be this persons crutch though. They should consider a professional to help them. But may be reluctant.
