SAME!! But i mostly don’t do it bc i don’t want to ruin his day with my problems. But usually i just want him to listen rather than getting hit by logical answers. Like, i know those answers myself i’m just ranting to feel better!!
My ex asked me about her budget a few days ago, and I gave her a logical way of solving it. She then told me I made her feel like shit and to stop messaging her.
All I said was she might want to ask for a 10% raise, but negotiate down to a $1/hr raise, and that would fix her budget, swinging it from the red to the black. She also said she hadn't received a raise in 3 years so.... it's not like I encouraged her to be all cunt-ish about it.
Like, what the fuck? You messaged me....
Reminded me why "ex".
All I said was she might want to ask for a 10% raise, but negotiate down to a $1/hr raise, and that would fix her budget, swinging it from the red to the black. She also said she hadn't received a raise in 3 years so.... it's not like I encouraged her to be all cunt-ish about it.
Like, what the fuck? You messaged me....
Reminded me why "ex".