I mean, if you have enough you can actually do really well with even just one of those things. Although- being able to get a partner and being able to keep one are often very different skill sets.
Being attractive means just that- and everyone is attractive- just not to everyone else. If you’re a pessimist who doesn’t shower, your lifestyle and self likely aren’t aligned and attractive to the super popular over achieving kid- but some radical environmentalist your pessimistic attitudes about humanity and your refusal to conform to wasteful consumption in the name of social graces might be very attractive. The question isn’t wether you are attractive- it’s who you attract. Looks or money or talent certainly don’t usually hurt the breadth and scope of who we attract- but aren’t needed. Attractiveness is about you as a person and what you represent- your potential and your outlook and what you’re subconsciously showing the world. Simply be good to your family may be attractive to some people. When you try to attract people who’s values don’t align with your is often where problems lie- because even if you attract them you’re likely not very compatible.
What’s on the inside matters but the world can’t see your insides- it can only judge your insides based on what you put out. Taking care of yourself is a basic mass appeal of attractiveness. Investment in self is a sign of self love and of discipline- two things that are generally key to success in life and love. So while you may not be a model- making an effort in basic hygiene and grooming is a big deal. After that it’s just about your manners, values, and priorities for most people. People have goals, wants, priorities- and tend to look for a partner who is aligned to helping them love the life they want. A partner is someone who enhances your life. So who you are attractive to in large part is determined by wether when a person looks at you they see traits that will enhance their life. Just be the best you can- or at least the you that you want to be- and you’ll be attractive to the sorts of people that attracts.
1. Good looks
2. Money
3. Relationship skills/Respect for your partner