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1_puma
· 5 years ago
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Someone who believes they are a good mother just because they have a special needs child. Someone who fishes for praise, and deflects any criticism. Someone who doesn’t actually have the best intentions, but always has to be right. Someone who expects free handouts. Someone who has such disregard for their child, that they might as well see that child as a fucking chair.
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guest_
· 5 years ago
I dunnoh. No context. People with disabilities are still people. Some are more or less sensitive or pragmatic than others. When I was in a wheel chair for awhile I’d let friends or family take a seat on/with me. There’s nowhere to sit, I have a chair, doesn’t kill me to share it. Often people with crutches let others “play around” with their crutches. Friends may even hide them or shake them etc. it just depends on the people involved. It looks like this kid likely has an issue that effects other functions too- having never met them I don’t know how cognizant they are or how ok with this they’d be. If the kid isn’t cognizant then it’s wrong. Treating a non responsive person like furniture is disrespectful. But I don’t have the details of this person and incident to condone or condemn.
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1_puma
· 5 years ago
No, I absolutely agree. I was answering what type of person would do this, in the negative context provided by the title. I didn’t mean the woman in the picture is as I described, just the type of person in a malicious context.
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guest_
· 5 years ago
No hate from me puma. My reply wasn’t a direct response to yours, just a general reply to the original post. I thumbed up your post and figured I got where you were coming from, but appreciate the confirmation. I think you made some good observations about a very common type of person who wether parent or spouse etc. is with a person of “special needs” so they can make themselves a “victim” and gain sympathy and respect for their “strength” to live with the “challenges” and their “big heart” and all that. Not that ALL people who care for the special needs are- but just that SOME are this way and that is disgusting.
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1_puma
· 5 years ago
I’d much rather clarify a misunderstanding, anyway!
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guest_
· 5 years ago
A good philosophy, and appreciated.
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