You wouldn’t demand the chef take the raw eggs for your omelette off the stove because you want breakfast before 9am and they aren’t ready.
You wouldn’t likely turn down a free meal offered by a close friends mother or a world class chef because they don’t cook until 8:30 and you want dinner before 8. There’s no reason to find a home or a spouse before you’re 30 or whatever else. You probably want more than just a home or a spouse or whatever- you probably want one you’ll enjoy, a “quality” one. So agreed. Don’t worry so much about WHEN you want it to happen- instead work to make sure that you are getting the most out of life and doing your best and the rest tends to line itself up for you.
... or it doesn’t. But if the latter is the case and you’ve done your best then nothing you could do would have made it otherwise, so you’d just be wasting worry over nothing.
You wouldn’t likely turn down a free meal offered by a close friends mother or a world class chef because they don’t cook until 8:30 and you want dinner before 8. There’s no reason to find a home or a spouse before you’re 30 or whatever else. You probably want more than just a home or a spouse or whatever- you probably want one you’ll enjoy, a “quality” one. So agreed. Don’t worry so much about WHEN you want it to happen- instead work to make sure that you are getting the most out of life and doing your best and the rest tends to line itself up for you.