Sometimes and I mean this in the most loving way possible sometimes your family is right and you really do need to get your life together and stop being such a jerk.
Just remember the people who love you the most will tell you to your face that the way you act or the things you do is messed up. They aren't doing it to be mean it is because it breaks their heart to see you that way and they know deep down you can do and be better.
But try to remember if they are the jerks and you are the good one than do as this post says forget what they say and just live your life and make your self better than you were the day before.
I speak from experience one of my brothers is a complete jerk, is lazy, and mooching off our cancer ridden mom with his gf who is just as bad.
I tell him I love you but you need to stop being such a jerk. I say more words but that is the jist and each yr he never changes. I do love him he will always be my brother but I want nothing to do with him till he is better.
I see I got down voted and I just want to add an update to what is happening with my brother.
After my mom died from cancer he has sold all he could that belong to her. Him and his gf still live in my parents home even though both are now gone. He claims he owns it. It was rented we told him. He gets money from his gf who works and he does not. He claims he is to hurt to work. He is 31, never had an injury, is in good health, and last job he had was 10 yrs ago.
His rent is paid three our aunt who helped with bills while our mom was alive. But she told him she can’t keep it up he needs to get a job. He has told people he is not getting a job. He has tried to get social security but was completely denied. He even tried to claim he had Agoraphobia yet a month before applying he went to six flags.
He has asked relatives if he can move in with them with his gf. Majority said no some said not with your gf and he seriously told them to go fuck them self. He said that to our 75 yr old aunt (different aunt). She only said no because her building will only allow 1 more person.
He has asked our brothers all say no because we have kids and he is not to be trusted near kids. He is dangerous and has hurt kids in the past. His gf worked at a day care and was fired for not once not twice but THREE FUCKING TIMES abusing kids. She tossed one by its ankle onto a bean bag, spanked another after first pulling its diaper down to do so, the last was she threw a little girl onto the hard floor. So no one wants her or him.
And I straight up laughed when he asked me I said fuck no. He tried to claim my husband was the cause I straight up told him off and said till you get your shit together we will not be helping you.
That is what I mean by sometimes your family is right you need to change.
I purposefully ignored talking to my entire family over the phone yesterday. It felt good. I then tossed The Witcher a coin, as that Sunday Night Football game was not interesting.
Just remember the people who love you the most will tell you to your face that the way you act or the things you do is messed up. They aren't doing it to be mean it is because it breaks their heart to see you that way and they know deep down you can do and be better.
But try to remember if they are the jerks and you are the good one than do as this post says forget what they say and just live your life and make your self better than you were the day before.
I speak from experience one of my brothers is a complete jerk, is lazy, and mooching off our cancer ridden mom with his gf who is just as bad.
I tell him I love you but you need to stop being such a jerk. I say more words but that is the jist and each yr he never changes. I do love him he will always be my brother but I want nothing to do with him till he is better.
After my mom died from cancer he has sold all he could that belong to her. Him and his gf still live in my parents home even though both are now gone. He claims he owns it. It was rented we told him. He gets money from his gf who works and he does not. He claims he is to hurt to work. He is 31, never had an injury, is in good health, and last job he had was 10 yrs ago.
His rent is paid three our aunt who helped with bills while our mom was alive. But she told him she can’t keep it up he needs to get a job. He has told people he is not getting a job. He has tried to get social security but was completely denied. He even tried to claim he had Agoraphobia yet a month before applying he went to six flags.
He has asked our brothers all say no because we have kids and he is not to be trusted near kids. He is dangerous and has hurt kids in the past. His gf worked at a day care and was fired for not once not twice but THREE FUCKING TIMES abusing kids. She tossed one by its ankle onto a bean bag, spanked another after first pulling its diaper down to do so, the last was she threw a little girl onto the hard floor. So no one wants her or him.
And I straight up laughed when he asked me I said fuck no. He tried to claim my husband was the cause I straight up told him off and said till you get your shit together we will not be helping you.
That is what I mean by sometimes your family is right you need to change.