I don't know about you but I have to fight to help carry heavy stuff because people think I'm not capable. I'm surprisingly strong and always happy to help.
But I think with this example it's also good to cater to the strengths of those who are there. If the men can do it quicker [which they usually can since they're biologically stronger] then they should. If the women there are stronger then they should.
But its definitely a bit dumb to assume that someone has to do something just because of their gender
These all go back to our DNA. Big, Heavy and Dirty things men have been expected to contribute picking up and put them down. More so if he owns a Truck. The other items are being a gentleman. Helping women ( who want it ) do hard, dangerous, dirty tasks. I've never seen a lady change her own tire, not even change her own oil ... that's not their purpose in life. That's for making babies, birthing them, feeding them and holding them on their larger hips. Now you know
I will lift / carry far more than I should for ego. However, you’re damn right I’m not about to solo carry a fucking fridge. No one should unless you’re a pro weight lifter that easily out lifts the fridge’s weight and are married to an actual banana That can’t lift a nickel
But I think with this example it's also good to cater to the strengths of those who are there. If the men can do it quicker [which they usually can since they're biologically stronger] then they should. If the women there are stronger then they should.
But its definitely a bit dumb to assume that someone has to do something just because of their gender