you never seen a men's bathroom? i waiting for a stall, guy came out, he didn't flush, so in a room full of people waiting, I yelled, "hey mate, can you come back here and flush your shit like a decent person?"
Womens' bathrooms can get pretty bad. I've encountered more than one used pad or tampon on the toilet for no apparent reason, among other unpleasantness. Seen dirty diapers left on the counters, also for no discernable reason.
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But I've also had men come out of their bathrooms and tell me they were uncomfortable because there were used needles and literal shit everywhere or pee all around the urinals.
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Also tried to send a young boy I was out with into a bathroom in a store once. He came back out and said he didn't want to use it and when I asked why he said it was dirty and people had drawn things everywhere. I went in and the entire stall wall was covered in penis graffiti as well as some slurs.
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Both seem to have their pitfalls, but overall the worst stories seem to come from the mens' bathrooms from what i've seen/heard
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But I've also had men come out of their bathrooms and tell me they were uncomfortable because there were used needles and literal shit everywhere or pee all around the urinals.
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Also tried to send a young boy I was out with into a bathroom in a store once. He came back out and said he didn't want to use it and when I asked why he said it was dirty and people had drawn things everywhere. I went in and the entire stall wall was covered in penis graffiti as well as some slurs.
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Both seem to have their pitfalls, but overall the worst stories seem to come from the mens' bathrooms from what i've seen/heard