When. I was young I would cry thinking of the day I would lose my parents. Now that I lost them both I realize the fear I felt was no where near as bad as I thought it be. It was way worse to really lose them.
Even though I know everyone one day must go away it will never be easy for those left.
As someone who's had that crippling fear since childhood, I thought your comment was going to ease the fear but nope, I'm in a new anxiety-fueled loop now!
Sorry lol I am still to close to when my mom passed away.
Truth is grieve is extremely hard. Because of the unknown. The one thing no one knows and no one has proof of what happens. It is where we go when we die. I feel if we all just knew there actually is a heaven than we would be fine because we would know for a fact we will see them again. We would miss them but it be more like them moving away with no way to contact them. But they promise to meet up with you some day.
It's been 3 yrs I still cry for my Dad it's been only 19 days since my mom and the only thing that keeps me from breaking down is constant distraction.
Sorry this probably isn't helping either. Lol sorry
Don't be sorry, I'd say I understand but as you pointed out I can't really. But it's normal that you're feeling this way, don't hesitate to communicate about it.
Even though I know everyone one day must go away it will never be easy for those left.
Truth is grieve is extremely hard. Because of the unknown. The one thing no one knows and no one has proof of what happens. It is where we go when we die. I feel if we all just knew there actually is a heaven than we would be fine because we would know for a fact we will see them again. We would miss them but it be more like them moving away with no way to contact them. But they promise to meet up with you some day.
It's been 3 yrs I still cry for my Dad it's been only 19 days since my mom and the only thing that keeps me from breaking down is constant distraction.
Sorry this probably isn't helping either. Lol sorry