I am not a man of discrimination. But it needs to be understood that bad health habits should not be normalized.
I don't care if you are a little pudgy or underweight, morbid obesity or starving yourself is not good.
Dreams are.... dreams. A good deal of the time they don’t make any sense in reality. Have standards, have preferences- but for my 2 cents- find someone who fits your life and you fit theirs. Someone who cares about you the way you want to be cared for, who inspires you to do better. Find the person who isn’t exactly what your imagination cooked up in a fantasy world where you control everything- but the person who is someone you weren’t creative enough to imagine- the person who makes your reality a dream and who your future dreams will be shaped around. Or.... make whatever middling details worth more than anything and everything else a person has to offer. It’s your life. I’d say don’t settle- grow. Mature.
I don't care if you are a little pudgy or underweight, morbid obesity or starving yourself is not good.