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karlboll
· 4 years ago
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Take it from me; Sometimes you just gotta walk out of everything that doesn't serve you and find different people where conflict resolution is an option.
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guest_
· 4 years ago
Like most things in life- it’s circumstantial and usually best served through balance. As you say- things can be BAD. So bad that the only way to get “Well” and the only way to heal is to walk away. We are the “owners” of our thoughts and feelings- but the things around us and the people in our lives influence those things strongly.
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guest_
· 4 years ago
I suppose it’s not as “simple and catchy” or easily actionable- but... I suppose the rape away is that rejecting anyone for simple, common flaws that you can live with; or accepting anyone into your life- even when they cause you harm or distress- is generally not healthy. Knowing when to compromise vs when to walk away. You can be 50 and alone and unhappy- but just as easy you could be 50 and not alone and still unhappy- or if it’s bad enough, maybe you don’t live until 50. Practice self care, but be reasonable about rejecting people over trivial matters.
