If all the people you've dated are bad, you should probably take a look at yourself and your standards.
1 shitty ex, that's common.
2 shitty exes, tough luck huh.
3 shitty exes, lemme guess, you have a thing for "bad boys/girls"
Exactly. Though wouldn't say it's always a "thing for bad boys/girls". In many cases it is, but some people, especially women in communities with strict gender roles (like fundamentalist religious communities) are more vulnerable to being preyed on by predatory, controlling men, because they've been told they're supposed to be subservient, that they're less than men because men can talk to God, and so on. On top of that, divorce is shamed in those communities so these women are told that marital rape and abuse is still preferable to divorce. I remember reading a post about a woman from Utah who divorced her husband after he nearly killed her while she was pregnant. What was the thing she was the most happy about after the divorce? The fact that she could finally name her own child. Shit gets real creepy with some of these fundies and people raised in this sort of indoctrination are especially vulnerable to manipulation and abuse. (For example check out Repzion's video on James Saroka)
1 shitty ex, that's common.
2 shitty exes, tough luck huh.
3 shitty exes, lemme guess, you have a thing for "bad boys/girls"