I tried to enter a discord server once that promoted "friendly advice to newcomers" on a slightly subject that I was new and unfamiliar with, so I made a request to be let in on their custom discord questionnare (you know, like those servers that request that you wait 10 minutes before you officially enter)... and a minute later I was kicked out.
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Friendly my ass, I said fuck you to that community and just decided to figure it out on my own.
Ive done the same thing with groups and have gotten treated very poorly. On one, for no other reason than I am poor and they stereotyped me (they admitted it). Now the only site i actually engage in is here. Im going through some serious shit right now and I know I can still find good people and nice words here. I dont understand how its so much easier for people to be so damn negative instead of being nice and helpful.
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Friendly my ass, I said fuck you to that community and just decided to figure it out on my own.