A good woman won’t demand a man with a good job a house and money.
A good woman will find a man she loves and help him achieve his dreams so he can become the man with the good job a house and money.
When I met my husband he had a newspaper route All his money went to his mom for rent it was only 200 dollars a month.
He lived in a laundry room/garage that was detached from the house.
He didn’t even have a car.
Now we have a place of our own.
Our daughter has all the things he didn’t as a kid. Her own computer with 3 screens. Lol
We have not one but 2 cars in our name.
He works hard every day of the week and I take care of the house and our daughter. (With teacher subbing after school goes back to normal)
We been together for 15 years.
Yes there was some harsh years where we went hungry to bed but we made sure our daughter was always full.
There was a few bills were we didn’t know how we could pay it and had to go hay in hand to friends and family.
But we pushed through those bad times with our heads up.
We now even doing so well we can help those who helped us. Not much but we try to help them as much as possible.
And maybe a little more down the road we be even better and stronger.
.
So don’t go expecting a pre built man because unless you are equally in the relationship you better be REALLY pretty. lol
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· 3 years ago
15 years damn... How did you 2 meet? The newspaper route bit I don't really understand.
We met on AOL chat room for 20 yr olds
I went in to just hang and joke with people and one day I see someone commented
“Nice guy looking to talk to nice girl”
And that was all he wrote.
A lot of people would do that post some comment like what their a/s/l is and than say something like want to talk about movies or something.
So I wrote in a snarky/flirty way lol
“How nice?”
But he didn’t see it and just posted it again.
“Nice guy looking to talk to a nice girl”
I wrote
“I asked how nice?”
He said “O just some one nice not mean.”
Yeah he was that clueless lol
But I private messaged him and we talked and talked.
Than he wanted to call me and he burned through a phone card with 300 minutes on it in one night lol yeah that’s 5 hour long phone call.
Than he got a camera and we eventually met up and been together ever since.
Funny store our daughter ended up being born 2 yrs later on the anniversary of the day we met.
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· 3 years ago
Damn.. Thats love.
He really said nice not mean...
I bet you celebrate her birthday instead of the day you 2 met.
If its both then blimey, he must be good at multi-tasking.
As for the newspaper route
When we met he lived with his mom and sister.
They all had a deal his mom had 2 jobs
She delivered newspapers in the morning and worked at a subway after that.
She paid the bills and such.
His sister had a job as a nurse for elderly and she paid for food for the whole house.
My husband helped his mom deliver papers (because see each person is only allowed so much they can deliver so they only get 200 dollars a month.) he also kept the house clean.
My husband gave all his money to his mom for rent and if he ever wanted anything like a video game or something she got it for him.
So he pretty much was broke.
The newspaper route was only an hour long job.
Lol we honestly didn’t notice till she was 2 and I found my old email address. And I saved all the emails he sent me.
Because back than everyone sent long emails lol
On the first email I got from him it was from the fist time we talked online he said I really loved talking to you tonight I hope we can talk again tomorrow.
And it was stamped April 4th 2005 1:00am
Which means we met April 3rd 2005.
And on April 3rd 2007 exactly 2 years later we had our daughter lol
And yeah we celebrate her birthday but me and him both talk about how crazy it is we met in a tiny chat room usually filled with perverts lol
He ALWAYS says I am so glad I found the one non pervert.
And I ALWAYS say so you admit you are a pervert? Because if I’m the ONLY ONE that wasn’t one that means you were one lol.
And he goes YES YES I AM! lol
And yes he really said O just someone nice not mean. Lol
I think it was because growing up he wasn’t popular he was bullied as a kid and his ex cheated with 3 guys.
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· 3 years ago
I think a good human will find beauty where some might find none. You clearly saw beyond all of this and find the beauty/ qualities that even he did not know he had. You must be a great human being.
Same goes for him. You both saw the beauty and qualities of each other. God bless.
I hope he cannot cook. Then, I can one-up him in atleast one area.
Yeah he burns water lol
But he is a computer technician and can fix cars and do all the stuff I can’t lol like reach stuff on high shelves lol I’m short he is not lol.
But I cook and do the things he can’t. Like he doesn’t have a creative bone in his body lol yet he can play guitar while I am actually no lie tone deaf.
So that’s what’s great we both have what the other lacks.
A good woman will find a man she loves and help him achieve his dreams so he can become the man with the good job a house and money.
When I met my husband he had a newspaper route All his money went to his mom for rent it was only 200 dollars a month.
He lived in a laundry room/garage that was detached from the house.
He didn’t even have a car.
Now we have a place of our own.
Our daughter has all the things he didn’t as a kid. Her own computer with 3 screens. Lol
We have not one but 2 cars in our name.
He works hard every day of the week and I take care of the house and our daughter. (With teacher subbing after school goes back to normal)
We been together for 15 years.
Yes there was some harsh years where we went hungry to bed but we made sure our daughter was always full.
There was a few bills were we didn’t know how we could pay it and had to go hay in hand to friends and family.
We now even doing so well we can help those who helped us. Not much but we try to help them as much as possible.
And maybe a little more down the road we be even better and stronger.
.
So don’t go expecting a pre built man because unless you are equally in the relationship you better be REALLY pretty. lol
I went in to just hang and joke with people and one day I see someone commented
“Nice guy looking to talk to nice girl”
And that was all he wrote.
A lot of people would do that post some comment like what their a/s/l is and than say something like want to talk about movies or something.
So I wrote in a snarky/flirty way lol
“How nice?”
But he didn’t see it and just posted it again.
“Nice guy looking to talk to a nice girl”
I wrote
“I asked how nice?”
He said “O just some one nice not mean.”
Yeah he was that clueless lol
But I private messaged him and we talked and talked.
Than he wanted to call me and he burned through a phone card with 300 minutes on it in one night lol yeah that’s 5 hour long phone call.
Than he got a camera and we eventually met up and been together ever since.
Funny store our daughter ended up being born 2 yrs later on the anniversary of the day we met.
He really said nice not mean...
I bet you celebrate her birthday instead of the day you 2 met.
If its both then blimey, he must be good at multi-tasking.
When we met he lived with his mom and sister.
They all had a deal his mom had 2 jobs
She delivered newspapers in the morning and worked at a subway after that.
She paid the bills and such.
His sister had a job as a nurse for elderly and she paid for food for the whole house.
My husband helped his mom deliver papers (because see each person is only allowed so much they can deliver so they only get 200 dollars a month.) he also kept the house clean.
My husband gave all his money to his mom for rent and if he ever wanted anything like a video game or something she got it for him.
So he pretty much was broke.
The newspaper route was only an hour long job.
Because back than everyone sent long emails lol
On the first email I got from him it was from the fist time we talked online he said I really loved talking to you tonight I hope we can talk again tomorrow.
And it was stamped April 4th 2005 1:00am
Which means we met April 3rd 2005.
And on April 3rd 2007 exactly 2 years later we had our daughter lol
And yeah we celebrate her birthday but me and him both talk about how crazy it is we met in a tiny chat room usually filled with perverts lol
He ALWAYS says I am so glad I found the one non pervert.
And I ALWAYS say so you admit you are a pervert? Because if I’m the ONLY ONE that wasn’t one that means you were one lol.
And he goes YES YES I AM! lol
And yes he really said O just someone nice not mean. Lol
I think it was because growing up he wasn’t popular he was bullied as a kid and his ex cheated with 3 guys.
Same goes for him. You both saw the beauty and qualities of each other. God bless.
I hope he cannot cook. Then, I can one-up him in atleast one area.
But he is a computer technician and can fix cars and do all the stuff I can’t lol like reach stuff on high shelves lol I’m short he is not lol.
But I cook and do the things he can’t. Like he doesn’t have a creative bone in his body lol yet he can play guitar while I am actually no lie tone deaf.
So that’s what’s great we both have what the other lacks.