When giving advise you need to also try to put yourself in the other persons shoes.
Like if a kid says my mom is always taking my stuff saying when I act right I will earn it back. I get good grades my room is clean I just want to hang with my friends but she won’t let me leave.
Yeah there is a big chances they are a jerk around the house.
Probably only gets good grades because the mom hounds them to study and probably only has a clean room due to them being hounded to clean. And chances are the mom feels the kid isn’t spending time with the family maybe not eating meals with them or they spend al day on their computer or phone or game system.
But than maybe mom is controlling and is dangerous so it’s best to ask questions before saying to leave them or cut them out their life. Because honestly most people just want their side to be right not for them to be told what can help the problem.
Like if a kid says my mom is always taking my stuff saying when I act right I will earn it back. I get good grades my room is clean I just want to hang with my friends but she won’t let me leave.
Yeah there is a big chances they are a jerk around the house.
Probably only gets good grades because the mom hounds them to study and probably only has a clean room due to them being hounded to clean. And chances are the mom feels the kid isn’t spending time with the family maybe not eating meals with them or they spend al day on their computer or phone or game system.
But than maybe mom is controlling and is dangerous so it’s best to ask questions before saying to leave them or cut them out their life. Because honestly most people just want their side to be right not for them to be told what can help the problem.