Your Well Being is important

Must be a change of language thing because to me being loved is all those other things. If you don't have them you are not being loved. Now I'm fine with changing it up a little so that is says "Being loved, meaning respected, prioritized, supported, desired, and understood is the minimum". Of course that takes work on both sides. And there is nothing worse, in a normal relationship, than one side taking advantage of the others love for them. So if you're not "being loved" in return it may be best to find someone who will.