Cake liver has wise words. I would like to also say… she never asked for your help or your opinion. If someone is saying they are upset their grandpa is dead- are you going to try and “fix” that too? You can’t really can you?
If someone is saying they are having trouble in their marriage and think it might be because their partner doesn’t listen- saying “get a divorce then..” or “ well they listened just the other day when you told them to get beans at the store, and you don’t always listen to them either like that one time…” that isn’t really helpful at all and even if it was… they didn’t ask for your help and more likely were looking for emotional support or to vent frustrations.
If someone is saying they are having trouble in their marriage and think it might be because their partner doesn’t listen- saying “get a divorce then..” or “ well they listened just the other day when you told them to get beans at the store, and you don’t always listen to them either like that one time…” that isn’t really helpful at all and even if it was… they didn’t ask for your help and more likely were looking for emotional support or to vent frustrations.