creativedragonbaby says it well- and I also think it is a matter of purpose.
“Winners” usually do most things with purpose, with a goal. They tend to prioritize their goals and focus on the ones that are most critical or achievable.
“Losers” tend to get caught up on some specific detail or aspect and forget the actual goal.
In sports for example- there may be ten or more games in a sports season. Your goal is to win the championship. You do not need to win every game to do this. There is no reason to beat up your team and injure players trying your all to win games if you already have the points to guarantee a championship game. A “loser” may forget the purpose is to win the championship and get caught up in the idea that they need to win games.
“Winners” usually do most things with purpose, with a goal. They tend to prioritize their goals and focus on the ones that are most critical or achievable.
“Losers” tend to get caught up on some specific detail or aspect and forget the actual goal.
In sports for example- there may be ten or more games in a sports season. Your goal is to win the championship. You do not need to win every game to do this. There is no reason to beat up your team and injure players trying your all to win games if you already have the points to guarantee a championship game. A “loser” may forget the purpose is to win the championship and get caught up in the idea that they need to win games.