Yeah, basically

Some men have lowered our standards to "are you genetically female / will you date this --> (o\O) (picture of me) and if one is a yes then it's a go.

I don't get it. You don't want to change yourself in order to comply with the standards of someone else? Great, good for you. But why cry foul play when the other side also insists on their standards instead of moving on to someone compatible? Sounds pretty hypocritical to me.