Not to take away from this issue, but recently I've gone down a bit of a rabbit hole and guys, there are *so* many women out there who are married with kids and don't even get a brownie on their birthday, or Mother's day, or ever. And on top of that they're expected to handle the bulk of chores even on those days, with no free time left to go to a bar and order a brownie. Or they're treated to a "party" they have to prepare for and clean up after all the while watching the kids. There are so many stories like that out there, so many husbands treating *themselves* to a kid-free day by going out with buddies on Mother's day or their wife's birthday, it kinda makes me lose hope in humanity. Seems like the trend is that men are more lonely when single (and that must be addressed too! The whole "man must invite first" BS makes my blood boil!), women are more lonely when taken.
But I agree that since chivalry is consided outdated these days, we should be kind to each other, going both ways.
But I agree that since chivalry is consided outdated these days, we should be kind to each other, going both ways.