People always say we shouldn't care how we look. Just because some say that, there are always people who judge us. Everywhere I go I'm laughed at, ignored, and treated like shit. And because of that I'm more insicure than most people know about me. And there are more people like me. So no matter what people say, we will always feel like we're worthless.
those are shitty people and you shouldn't care what those kinds of people think of you. you are one of my favorite posters and I think ur pretty fucking cool! i'm laughed at and made fun of by my students sometimes....I give no fucks at all. I still crack my jokes and if no one laughs, it does not matter cuz I laugh at my damn self. I think i'm pretty funny and I think ur pretty funny too! wouldn't you rather stand out because of how unique you are than blend with the crowd? I know I do!
People just tend not to like me. And I most likely have reasons. I've been called a bitch and a back stabbing whore by a bunch of former friends, because of something I've done. Been called a slut, because of something I've done. My own friends ignore me a lot and put me down. I really don't have anyone in my life anymore who I can be myself around
In a way, yes. The first thing, my friend asked me out and I said yes, and his ex was pissed at me because he liked me while they were going out(he was trying to break up with her because she was overly jealous of everyone) the second thing I was blackmailed into doing things
'' I really don't have anyone in my life anymore who I can be myself around''
Yeah since my friend passed away I feel exactly the same. That why I spend so much time alone on the internet because I have no one that I can be myself around..
awwwwwwwww, guys....you're gonna make me cry. tara, don't worry, you'll be ok. sever, i'm so sorry for your loss. and I feel both of you. I have 3 total friends that don't live any where near me. I have no more friends but thats by choice. I have been back stabbed enough to find comfort in my solitude. I mean I have my husband but we are our own people and aren't always together. **internet huggies all around**
And in that moment we realised that the internet is the best form of population control ever invented. Keeping the outcasts as outcasts so the world can run that little bit more smoothly.
Tara you moan about being ugly and socially rejected, but it seems you deserve it because of your actions. Usually ugly people compensate for their lack of physical attractiveness by doing nice things, being nice and helping others. You have rejected that option and you have nothing left. I have no sympathy for you. Furthermore, instead of going out and bettering yourself, you are on the internet constantly, moaning, complaining, stagnating, and rotting on the inside. By the time you realise these things, I hope it is not too late for you.
To guest, 1.) the majority of the population, in my opinion, is dull and boring and they put down people who are different from them even if they're not necessarily bad. That's why so many people are outcasts, because they technically aren't normal, but they're also not bad.
2.) It sounds like it wasn't Tara's fault, so I would hardly say she deserves it.
3.) Beauty fades. Also, "ugly" people could just be nice because they're nice. They're not trying to compensate for anything, they're just being good people.
4.) She's not constantly moaning, complaining, and stagnating. She's on the Internet making quips and having some fun and being nice, which is more than you can say.
5.) I might be able to take you more seriously if you hadn't resorted to the cowardly position of a guest. Sign in or make an account and then we'll debate.
Ok, first thing, this girl began bashing me on Instagram for going out with her ex. It was a reasonable amount of time between the time they broke up and when we went out. Second, I try to be nice. I try to make people happy. Most see me as a nuisance. Lastly, what I did was because of blackmail. All I'm saying, is snapchat is not my friend
It was partially my fault. I should have talked to her about it. But she was the one telling me to go fuck myself then talking shit about me on Instagram and behind my back with all of her friends
who else thinks that you should have an account to comment and thumb-up/down comments? I think guest should only be able to thumb-up/down the pics and stay out of our convos if they are going to remain anon.
I know I was harsher when I was an anon. and we here are a polite/sweet community. well, except for mgoveia, but he is like the big brother you fight with but god-help-the-one-that-messes-with-him!
:) just the xbox...and you would be proud, mgoveia; i've been trying to play COD with him too. ("trying" being the key word. i'm still all about minecraft tho)
I'm not saying everyone is like this,but most "ugly" girls I know constantly complain about having no relationships or have an ugly personality,which makes boys even more unlikely to date them
Exactly. The dumb and beautiful are quite often annoying and I don't like being around them (however, I don't dislike them because they can still be sweet). But the brain is where it's all at and most "smart" people fail to interest me, much less the stupid ones.
Well, I'm glad. I feel like a lot of young people dwell more on the superficial aspects of life (i.e. partying, appearance, etc.) as opposed to the deeper ones. This usually causes me (and you, I suppose) to be a bit of a loner seeing as I haven't really met anyone who agrees with notions like that. I mean, they say they care more about personality, but the moment and "ugly" girl with a great personality walks into the room, they'll start bullying her.
Haha, I have no friends (lest you count my mother), but I also don't care much for the notion of partying. It sounds dull and tedious. In fact, on Friday they had a sort of school "party" during the last hour or so of the day in order to reward the honor roll students and basically all they did was hand out soda and play pop music really loudly. I mean, it was nice getting out if class but it was immensely boring and I just stood off the side and read.
Well, if you're talking to them, clearly I don't know why they're being an ass. If you're talking to me, it's just been a stressful week so I'm a bit more on edge and have less patience for jackasses than usual.
Actually, it was more along the lines of, "All these people are completely idiotic. I want to leave right now. I've only been here ten minutes and already all the twelve year olds are drunk. Yep, time to go home and read me some Harry Potter. Let's go."
Well, I'm sure not everyone. But introverts tend to dwell more on the Internet and in books and such (in other words, places where they don't have to communicate with people verbally), so that's why a lot of people on the Internet dislike partying and socializing. They may find it tedious (like me), uncomfortable, or just not fun. Extroverts like people and socializing, even if it's not particularly meaningful, and they don't like keeping to themselves, which is what you do when reading, browsing the Internet, etc. But I'm sure not everyone on here is an introvert. I'm sure at least one extrovert comes here simply for the amusing posts. :)
I know I'm late to the party, but I wholeheartedly agree with the plain & smart Vs. pretty & dumb thing. I have a hard enough time peoplewatching (and listening) as it is. If I had to spend an extended time around that, I don't know what I'd do. Actually, I rented out a spare room to someone like that before, and now I know that kick them out is what I'd do. Also, sometimes I think back and shudder at some of the dates I've had over the years, though I'm not trying to say I've had many, because I haven't.
As for partying, the few I've been to have involved such shenanigans as desperate chicks blowing guys in someone else's hot tub, getting too drunk and crying, and random drug use turning people into uninteresting zombies (the worst type of zombie).
Lastly, I used to be half&half, but I'm kinda forced to be full introvert, having lost my small group of friends to things like drugs, toxic marriages + single parenting, and just plain losing touch after moving away.
Con't: Fluffy, wtf is wrong with you? Every post I see from you and your buddy seems laced with ignorance and/or hatred. Are you trying to troll, or are you really THAT terrible of a person?
fulffy is def either A) a troll or B) really just a shitty person [probably has no friends in real life and comes on here to try to make people feel the way he/she does in real life. and IF that's the case, fluffy, i'm sorry you feel that way and you shouldn't be the hate/shitty-ness you go thru in real life. be the change you want to see.]
if your life is great and you're fulfilled and all, could you stop being so shitty to everyone? please and thank you...its not what you say but how you say it; you're just plain ol' mean sometimes.
I think girls should take care of themselves and try to be "pretty" (which is subjective) but not compare themselves to others or base their self worth on their appearance.
Yeah, definitely one of my favorite things about this site: we're all up for debates about issues that concern us, but we can also be giant idiots (and I say "idiot" in a caring way).
Yeah since my friend passed away I feel exactly the same. That why I spend so much time alone on the internet because I have no one that I can be myself around..
2.) It sounds like it wasn't Tara's fault, so I would hardly say she deserves it.
3.) Beauty fades. Also, "ugly" people could just be nice because they're nice. They're not trying to compensate for anything, they're just being good people.
4.) She's not constantly moaning, complaining, and stagnating. She's on the Internet making quips and having some fun and being nice, which is more than you can say.
5.) I might be able to take you more seriously if you hadn't resorted to the cowardly position of a guest. Sign in or make an account and then we'll debate.
As for partying, the few I've been to have involved such shenanigans as desperate chicks blowing guys in someone else's hot tub, getting too drunk and crying, and random drug use turning people into uninteresting zombies (the worst type of zombie).
Lastly, I used to be half&half, but I'm kinda forced to be full introvert, having lost my small group of friends to things like drugs, toxic marriages + single parenting, and just plain losing touch after moving away.