Yes they do. People just assume all guys are advantageous dicks that prey on women and are only looking for sex but I can assure that they most certainly do exist.
"advantageous"? think you used that word wrong bro. Also just because he tucked her in, doesn't mean he doesn't want sex from her, he is just using different tactics. What was probably going through his head was either she will be thankful for the kindness and pay him back somehow (hopefully sex), or she will tell her friends what a good guy he is (and hopefully get sex from them). Ironically, being that nice guy doesn't usually get you anywhere, and if it works, it takes fucking ages to work. My advice would have been to stop her from drinking any more alcohol early on so she isn't so drunk, then see where things went when they went up to the room.
Why so many comments from women saying they want to meet a guy like this but can't find one? The truth is it's very difficult to get away with being kind to women. I love being kind to women but women see that as weak and I get friend-zoned every single time. Men that want to make women happy simply have no choice but to spend many many years on their own and go without sex because women are attracted to jerks. If you want a nice guy that will make you happy, simply go out with a man that is wanting to do everything he can to make you happy. It's as simple as that! No point blaming all men, when it's you that friend-zoned or rejected all the nice guys you met.
Why does everyone assume that niceness is the only quality that women are looking for in a man? Is that the only thing that matters to YOU guys?
Also, can we stop pretending that friendship automatically equals boyfriend material?
You don't mean that. You know you don't. You can't possibly fall in love with a guy based on one good deed. Plus if he is not physically attractive to you, forget about it. Then there is the issue that guys like this do exist, so why aren't you with one right now? Your argument crumbles under scrutiny.
Since I can't reply to both guest ill just put this for everyone... There are guys still out there who are gentleman! You may just be looking in the wrong places.
there is....i swear there is. just gotta give them a chance. they don't always look like channing tatum (or whoever you think is hot) but once you give them the chance....they become the sexiest thing ever!
My boyfriend of 4 years is one of these nice ones. I got shitfaced by accident (was in pain, drank meds, went out, passed out after a beer) and he carried me up three flights of stairs, tucked me in, and took care of me all night. Eventually we started dating and now we have been together for a bit more than four years.
Why so many comments from women saying they want to meet a guy like this but can't find one? The truth is it's very difficult to get away with being kind to women. I love being kind to women but women see that as weak and I get friend-zoned every single time. Men that want to make women happy simply have no choice but to spend many many years on their own and go without sex because women are attracted to jerks. If you want a nice guy that will make you happy, simply go out with a man that is wanting to do everything he can to make you happy. It's as simple as that! No point blaming all men, when it's you that friend-zoned or rejected all the nice guys you met.
It is not just that you are nice. And I have seen many that think nice is just not being an asshole. Its a little more than that. You have to be willing to think of others ahead of yourself while still having the will and self-confidence to take care of yourself too. Yes, be nice but also be strong. Be flexible but don't be a pushover. Ideally, we need to exist somewhere in the middle and not be on the extreme ends. If you are nice and getting friend zoned, man up a little but don't turn into a misogynistic jerk and go to the other end of the spectrum.
I am confident. I am not too shy to talk to women or to start conversations with people I don't know or don't know well. I'm certainly strong too. I've had to go without food several times as I gave everything I had to provide for the woman that I loved when she really needed it and that takes strength. I must be strong otherwise I would not have been willing to sacrifice as much as I have. It's not about looks either. I'm not going to boast about my looks, but I certainly know guys that are not as good looking as me but have beautiful girlfriends. The reason they have beautiful girlfriends is simple, they don't respect women, and they selfishly put themselves first, but that makes them attractive and women seek their approval. Women won't seek my approval because they will already have it because I'll already be trying to make them happy.
But then I'm a jerk too, because even though I certainly wouldn't be willing to have sex with a woman so drunk she doesn't know what she's doing, it makes me really depressed to go so many years without sex. I guess when women say they want a nice guy they mean that they want a guy that doesn't care about sex. I can never be that guy. I can only be the guy that will do everything he can to make her happy.
Am I the only one that finds it sad that people are saying "Give this guy a medal" for doing something he SHOULD have done in the first place? Good for him for doing what he did. I am just saying that it's sad that you have to give praise to men (and women because they do it to) for not raping.
Well with the way life is nowadays, it's really rare. Two kids got medals and a plaque for returning a wallet to an elderly person, but when I did it he thanked me and I found that way better. There's just a bunch of swaggots who don't think about anyone else but themselves, and only talk about sex and weed.
So yeah, long story short common sense and empathy are so rare nowadays that people pay thousands in gratitude.
I can't reply directly to some of the guests, but to all the guys complaining about being friend zoned, let me offer some well intentioned advice: What are you besides "nice?" What do you have to offer the world? How can you improve yourself and be a better person? Second, I hear all the time "these jerks always have beautiful girlfriends..." Are you sure she's beautiful on the inside?
Are you too busy trying to get with the attractive ones and overlook what may be a wonderful woman who would return your gestures of affection simply because she might not be traditionally beautiful or may be overweight? Some things to think about...
Check these links for some more perspective:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ylxDvthI54s&sns=em http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/
Does whiny, entitled immaturity count as an offering? ;)
I just read the article about being a better person, and the part about compassion and prayer really made me laugh.
Also, can we stop pretending that friendship automatically equals boyfriend material?
So yeah, long story short common sense and empathy are so rare nowadays that people pay thousands in gratitude.
Are you too busy trying to get with the attractive ones and overlook what may be a wonderful woman who would return your gestures of affection simply because she might not be traditionally beautiful or may be overweight? Some things to think about...
Check these links for some more perspective:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ylxDvthI54s&sns=em
http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/
I just read the article about being a better person, and the part about compassion and prayer really made me laugh.