I just saw your other message. I'm so happy that your other friend is in a good place now! :')
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I have friends in town so I can't be on as much right now, but hang in there and please let me know if you have any questions on what I just typed out. I didn't have time for editing and proofreading so I apologize if it's totally confusing and I will fix it later!

...using him. He is lagging that your need to be used to make people happy. They isn't healthy. He's also getting confused sexually, hurt by his brother, and, I 100% guarantee, withdrawing from his social network and parents which are the only healthy thing on his life. He's being sweet and, because of that, spiralling into something that will hurt him the longer he is exposed to it. His job isn't worrying about how others deal with his situation. He just needs help.
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As for the threats, that's the only leverage his abusers have. Once he tells, IF no one believes him and they actually try to hurt him them they just proved him right. If no one believes him they'll manipulate him back in and at that point he can freaking record an encounter and reach out to rainn.org right away. It's just really important that you can let him know: 1) he isn't trapped, 2) he'll be okay, and 3) he needs to be brave and take care of himself by doing this so everyone can start to heal.

Hi! I'm sorry for your friend, @aviva. He's in a bad situation. But there is definitely help for him. His brother needs concerning and his grandmom (sorry) needs punishment. Just think - she won't have to work about bills anymore, so in a weird way he's helping her a lot.
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There are reasons this type of stiff is frowned on. He's making the best of a bad situation but his life will be better and more full if he gets out of this. Kids need to develop their social skills and learn what it means to be a person. Being in a powerless, sexual situation so young will divert that one-time development window to the wrong thing. Not only that, but he needs to learn he can trust adults and count on others to have his back.
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Do you see what I mean? Right now he's being a good boy and helping the people he loves any way he can. That's a developmentally appropriate attitude. But he's leaning from the wrong peyote. Men are in and out of his life and are using him, his grandmom is happy but...

You just need a new battery!

I mean, I could shave myself a little trouble if I didn't have facial hair but the itchiness is easy enough to bear-d

You're a peein'!
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HAHAHA imsosorry

I agree! I also detect some:
Totally
Heartstopping
Outfit
Talent

Definitely

I don't know @aviva, it's kinda grown on me.

I love paying attention to random stuff like this. Elincredibleme commented every day and was hilariously inventing poems and generally putting in lots of effort. Then he disappeared six or seven months ago, and a few days later granlobomalo showed up with the same personality. Hopefully you'll see what I mean in the next week or two. I'll tell you in this thread if I think lobo is back under a different name or as a guest.
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I'm glad t__v__t is okay and recovering..
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HAHAHA I definitely wasn't inquiring after anyone's sexuality. Maybe I'll try to remember that word though. It kinda works, in a weird way, to ask if someone is "skittles."
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My day was alright, but my car got messed up - it's stuck in second gear :/ (the Friends theme song has been in my head for some crazy reason: "this hasn't been my day, my week, my month or even my year....") I spent most of yesterday trying to figure out how to coax my car into other gears and it's being a big jerk. Oh well. I'll get it eventually!

When I think about it, I do sometimes tend to lie in bed, cheat fate's plans for me and maybe even steal the occasional heart.
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I have to say, I didn't really like this study at first but now it's starting to grow on me. https://goo.gl/images/FbMU4U

Good morning, discussion group! Haha.
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Want some funsub trivia that you may or may not know? I like paying attention to users who come and go, and to users who are friends irl. I also like to see what users are from the same area and become friends, or when they just become friends on here, in a random comment thread. There too many to list unless you guys really want to know but here are my favorites: the twin brothers from NZ: flyingoctopus and mrfahrenheit, hilarious sisters in Australia: calvinoot and parisqeen. I like that silvermyth and hyperion bonded over art years ago and both post really creative, original content here, and call each other out sometimes.
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Users reinvent themselves, like: mightyoak->fell_equinox
peachyperssimon-> peachyana->peachyy? (Just a guess)
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And, drumroll please:
leincredibleme ->@elincredibleme ->granlobomalo (99% sure)
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Then again, I half-thought aviva was skittles, so who am I to know for sure? :p I hope you ladies are having a good day!

Yes, this is amazing. Thanks, @f__kyeahhamburg!

Agreed!

This seems fitting, @grimreaper. You're the star of every one of those, right?

He doesn't feel embarrassed. It seems like he just feels really lonely. He's a wolf who just wants a good-hearted, smart man to settle down with but whatever is going on with him is making him feel like that won't happen right now. But alcohol will make you feel like that sometimes..
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I think he knows we're there for him though. All three of us made it very clear in that chat with him, as well as guest_.
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I've been meaning to ask - is t__v__t okay? She disappeared.