Where do you live with 13$ E-liquid and $70 packs of cigarettes? I vape. My boyfriend smokes. I spend $25-$30 a bottle on juice. He buys Marlboros. They cost 11-13 dollars a pack. And he doesn’t have to worry about coils.

I’d tell the cashier I didn’t want those things. And take all the things I did want.

You’re the best.

Sweebe

@halfdeadhammerhead and @guest_ I apologise. I forgot I must be extremely literal around here. I’m happy my parents didn’t listen to a 6-12 year old and take me to the doctor to “transition” me in any way (whether that be chemical or surgical). I grew out of wanting to be a male as a teenager. As an adult I look back on that time and laugh. If I was a child in this day and age they would have immediately taken me to get hormone therapy. Kids and teens go through phases. Their entire lives shouldn’t be changed because of how they thought when they were 6.

I can’t anymore. This entire conversation makes me wanna hit my head into a wall. You win kiddo. Have fun trapping straight men. Or whatever it is you say it’s okay to do.

Dressing up as a woman, presenting yourself as a woman, picking up straight men, and not telling them that you are actually a male IS lying. It’s lying by omission. People shouldn’t have to go on every date going “hey girl, got a dick?” It’s on the person with the abnormal anatomy to speak up and say something. People shouldn’t have to assume that the woman they’re on a date with has a penis
Also you contradict yourself by saying people should know what their date has between their legs before getting into bed with them, then saying that trans people shouldn’t have to tell anyone. How are people supposed to know then? Psychic ability? The onus is on the trans
person to be upfront with their potential sexual partners. Unless you met them somewhere where the assumption is that they are into woman with penises, you should assume that a guy you picked up in the bar isn’t into dicks.

Yea. But if I KNOW for a fact I don’t like exotic broccoli, I’m going to ask for my meal WITHOUT it. If the restaurant tells me “yea, this is 100% Broccoli free”, then gives me a broccoli soup. I’d send that shit back and never go to that restaurant again. Did it kill me? No. But if someone forced me to eat it, I’d have words.

”don’t go to bed with a person whom you don’t know what kind of genitals they have.”. How are you supposed to know what kind of genitals they have if they don’t TELL YOU?
And yea. A pregnant person should disclose that they are pregnant before sleeping with someone who isn’t the father. Someone looking to have a sexual relationship with someone ABSOLUTELY should be upfront about their kinks and what they will or won’t do. What planet do you live on where the only way people find out these things is by having unpleasant things happen to them first? Like “well. I know you just put it in my butt, but just so you know...I’m not into anal”. That makes no sense.

This argument is stupid because obviously I’m arguing with a brick wall. Straight men don’t like dicks. If you have one, and you are parading around as someone without one, and trying to sleep with people who like vaginas, you get what you get. Be honest. And maybe then you’ll create less risk for yourself.
I’m done here.

It can go both ways now can’t it? If you haven’t gotten to know someone well enough to be comfortable telling them what is in your pants (assuming it’s not the usual) why are you in bed with them?
It’s not a question of consent. Because it should never get that far. Unlike the ugly girl using model pictures on Tinder, you can’t find out something is wrong just by looking at them. So someone should say something before people get to bed.

I mean. Disclosing the fact that you have a dick and disclosing your FICO score are two different things. I mean. If you use stock images on Tinder to pull guys, you can’t be upset when you meet up with them in real life and they aren’t impressed if you’re a 300lb ugly chick, and choose not to talk to you anymore. Same if you have a penis. If you are presenting yourself as an attractive woman, you can’t be upset if straight men aren’t impressed with your schlong and don’t wanna talk to you. In both situations, the person on the other end has the right to be upset with you.

I don’t think anyone deserves to be beaten. That said, if you’re going after heterosexual men and you have a penis, you should be upfront about it. They are in their rights to feel like they have be duped or fooled by you if you wait until you are in bed with them to let them find out about something like that. And many may feel violated and lash out.
I guess my point is. Don’t be a catfish.

Maybe. But it comes off very condescending. And I doubt the person would have an issue if things were reversed. People typically have mostly friends of the same race. Asians tend to group together too. But no one is asking them to invite other races in just to be PC.