Leave.

Sorry to hear that spiderwoman, the reasons for people not leaving are so hard to understand yet so common in these situations. I have worked with victims of domestic abuse in the community and in refuge and its heart breaking when you put in so much work and they still go back.
Bethorien I don't know if you have gotten that information from lived experience or not, but I have met many vulnerable people (men and woman) who were beaten into subservience, who wouldn't speak out to their partner, who would sometimes not be allowed to speak to them at all without permission. To state that those who acted emotionally find themselves unable to leave is unfair. For many, their whole life has been taken over by another person. Financially
, psychologically, emotionally, physically, socially. They become entrapped and isolated before realising what is happening, then it becomes too late to simply get up and leave. The highest percentage of DV related murders happen when the victim tries to

Please refer to my original post

If a victim of domestic abuse read this then it would be quite damaging

2 years later and I still feel the same.. That makes me sad D:

It was overwhelming and felt like a giant play house, i ate meatballs, bought a bed and random other things.. It was fun

Did you just misgender someone? #triggerrrred