Courage clearly means different things to you and I.
I think our disagreement boils down to the value of a spider. You're value for them is clearly very high, and I respect that. My value for an individual spider or two is low enough that I'm not going to chase one around my home in hopes to catch it and release it. I'm just going to squish it and move on with my day.
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And 'no' to the irony. I like princesses. I don't particularly care for Disney. The two are not synonymous.
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I also reject your claim that there are zero spider bites that were not in self defense. Any person bit by a spider in their sleep would be one example to disprove it.

Shoo it away to where? Under my bed? Behind the sofa?
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So if i go outside and stick my finger in the web of a brown recluse and it bites me, it's my fault because i disturbed it's home.
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But if a brown recluse comes into my home and jumps on my eyeball while i'm browsing FS, it's my fault if I kill it?
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What % of spider killings do you suspect have been killed out of pleasure? I submit that most of them have been killed while the person was in a state of fear.
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I think people need to separate reality from Disney.

Thank you!
7.5B people. We WILL have cultural differences! If people continue to confuse cultural differences with racism we are eventually going to act like GOT.

So every time a spider, or animal in general, attacks its in defense?

All animals..... but not including humans?

I'm confused too. Who?

My apologies for my implication.
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I agree. And i would add that far too often we think that money = success. There are countless people in the top 1% that have taken their own lives. I'll take emotional and spiritual health over millions of dollars every time.

Thats true, luck plays a big roll. But we cant change our luck. I'd rather concentrate on the things that are within my area of influence or control.
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If Bill gates spent his 20's complaining on twitter about how much money everyone else had instead of working hard toward his goals he would probably be as poor as the OP right now too.

So what is the fix?
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Your seeming disapproval of how the Matthew Principal plays out would suggesting that working hard to give my children as much advantage as i can is some how a bad thing.

If only people were choosing for themselves instead of helpless children. Then we could just let darwin sort it all out.

If i had a choice between a world where we were free to make decisions (including wrong decisions) vs a world where we don't even get the choice I'd take the freedom every time.

What if he is able but unwilling. But he's unwilling only because doing so would strip us of free will which is really the fundamental uniqueness that makes life worth living.

I'm not a particular fan of Trump but why cant both of those statements be true? It's not really the report that vindicates him but a complete lack of evidence after a 2 year, unlimited resource, investigation. If that report can't vindicate, what possibly could?

MURICA!