New And Improved "Dad's Rules For Dating My Daughter...." 35 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
A pregnant teen isn't the worst thing in the world. Far worse is the man that grows up a slave to passion who views women as sexual objects and whose primary concern is his own interests. Because I promise you that if we continue to allow our culture to encourage our children to have sex, that's what we'll get. Plenty of men and women who lack the moral structure to make the world a better place.
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New And Improved "Dad's Rules For Dating My Daughter...." 35 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
Just to make sure we're clear, the psychology you referenced and the psychology I referenced don't disagree with each other -- they're talking about completely different subjects. Nor am I disagreeing with what you cited. I simply believe that there is a heck of a lot more at stake here than just pregnancy and STDs. That's where the science falls short. Statistics can only measure physical, external things. But life isn't all about physical, external things.
What I advocate is raising a generation that knows how to love and respect others; that has self-control and lives for others rather than just themselves, and believes in the morality and family values that our world needs if it's going to survive. Obviously avoiding teen pregnancy is extremely important, but if that's all we're worried about, we've got a short-sightedness problem.
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What I advocate is raising a generation that knows how to love and respect others; that has self-control and lives for others rather than just themselves, and believes in the morality and family values that our world needs if it's going to survive. Obviously avoiding teen pregnancy is extremely important, but if that's all we're worried about, we've got a short-sightedness problem.
New And Improved "Dad's Rules For Dating My Daughter...." 35 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
why do you think we don't teach lads how to light cigarettes or open beer bottles? I mean, by your logic, we should, shouldn't we? we wouldn't want to "suppress knowledge" after all. My point still stands: when you teach someone how to do something, You are telling them that it is something they can and should be doing, And you're adding incentive to actually do it.
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New And Improved "Dad's Rules For Dating My Daughter...." 35 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
You're not disagreeing with me, saviourself, you're disagreeing with psychologists. If you want to fight that battle, go ahead. I'm just telling you what they have said. My two cents are that the trend is almost certainly getting worse. Parents don't get respected in pop culture anymore. Turn on Disney channel and you'll see what I mean. Norwegian confirmed that -- kids already want to do the exact opposite of what their parents say. The last thing we need is for society to further encourage that rebellion.
But your comparison of sex ed to seatbelts is silly. we all need seatbelts because accidents happen. Having sex is no accident. It's the result of a series of poor, irresponsible choices. And I know from personal experience that those mistakes can be avoided. I went to a large high school in an area where abstinence was the primary fours of sexual education, and I could probably count the number of pregnant girls in the school on one hand.
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But your comparison of sex ed to seatbelts is silly. we all need seatbelts because accidents happen. Having sex is no accident. It's the result of a series of poor, irresponsible choices. And I know from personal experience that those mistakes can be avoided. I went to a large high school in an area where abstinence was the primary fours of sexual education, and I could probably count the number of pregnant girls in the school on one hand.
New And Improved "Dad's Rules For Dating My Daughter...." 35 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
Saviourself you seem to have a very idealized concept of parent-child relationships, as if children always give 100% heed to everything their parents say. Remember we're talking about teenagers here. Social psychologists have said that on average children get only about 50% of their culture from their family. The other half comes from peers. Add natural teenage rebelliousness and over-active hormones and a general lack of wisdom and self-control on top of that, and you do the math.
And if we want to make it even worse, people naturally are attracted towards "living on the edge" and "how much can I get away with?" If a teen's parents are telling him/her one thing and society is saying exactly the opposite, you can bet that he/she is going to favor the option that is a) easier and b) makes him/her feel more "free".
Teaching a kid how to put a condom on is teaching them that it's normal and okay for kids to be putting condoms on. That's the problem.
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And if we want to make it even worse, people naturally are attracted towards "living on the edge" and "how much can I get away with?" If a teen's parents are telling him/her one thing and society is saying exactly the opposite, you can bet that he/she is going to favor the option that is a) easier and b) makes him/her feel more "free".
Teaching a kid how to put a condom on is teaching them that it's normal and okay for kids to be putting condoms on. That's the problem.
New And Improved "Dad's Rules For Dating My Daughter...." 35 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
But the question was about the accessibility of birth control. There's obviously no way a kid is going to go through his/her teens knowing nothing about "safe sex," or birth control. But if society is handing out condoms to teenagers, they're directly counteracting the parent's wishes.
I have a friend in England who told me about the sex ed classes he went to, and how they included actually teaching girls how to put condoms on, hands on and everything. That's pretty sick in more ways than one.
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I have a friend in England who told me about the sex ed classes he went to, and how they included actually teaching girls how to put condoms on, hands on and everything. That's pretty sick in more ways than one.
Human rules 13 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
It's kinda awkward doing it for just a guy though... anyone else noticed that? The other guy doesn't really know how to respond. Most people will hold the door open behind them no matter who is coming, but holding the door open and letting her go first is definitely a gender role thing. Nothing wrong with that either. :)
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New And Improved "Dad's Rules For Dating My Daughter...." 35 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
Even if it's my kid? It doesn't work that way. Parents parent their children. That's their job. Society does not, because society is corrupt. If society is teaching kids the opposite of what their parents are, something is very wrong.
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New And Improved "Dad's Rules For Dating My Daughter...." 35 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
Some of us are just stuck on this old-fashioned idea that sex is a special thing that promiscuous teens shouldn't be messing around with, and that people aren't slaves to their hormones. Giving out birth control is basically just giving out permission to have sex, and we say no to that.
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New And Improved "Dad's Rules For Dating My Daughter...." 35 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
That was my thought ... it's like, 'you're really gonna let your hormonal teenage daughter decide?'
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This kid is brave. 33 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
I was kinda thinking the same thing. I disagree with his position, but admire that he thinks for himself and takes a stand (although it's probably more likely that he got the idea from someone else). But the Pledge of Allegiance is about ideals. when you say it, you're not agreeing that things are great the way they are, you're pledging yourself to stand up for and work for those principles.
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If candy companies had honest slogans 19 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
I'm offended, York Patties are one of God's greatest gifts to the world. So are Skittles!
Sometimes I wish I was dumb 10 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
The solution is to just keep learning. Eventually you get past that stage and see that it really is a beautiful place after all. It just takes patience. :)
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Playing pokemon 16 comments
Yin-Yang of world hunger 31 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
But on the bright side, extreme poverty levels have been declining drastically over the last six or seven decades, and the big fat white guy in that image did have something to do with that. So while there's obviously still more to be done, be careful seeing the world as an evil place where people starve -- that's not nearly as true today as it was 80 years ago.
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Game of life. Hint hint Rockstar 20 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
Never said I'm perfect. :P
But there is a big difference between taking a few minutes to get some laughs and spending hours and hours living a second life that isn't real. I think it's psychologically dangerous to literally live a second life in a fake world. The real world is the one that needs help -- all the time we waste in a virtual one is robbing God and our fellow human beings of the contribution we should be making to the real world.
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But there is a big difference between taking a few minutes to get some laughs and spending hours and hours living a second life that isn't real. I think it's psychologically dangerous to literally live a second life in a fake world. The real world is the one that needs help -- all the time we waste in a virtual one is robbing God and our fellow human beings of the contribution we should be making to the real world.
My Thoughts Are With You- Family Is Who You Make It. Blood Doesn't Make It So 45 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
Why limit it to LGBTs? My heart goes out to people who are rejected for any reason. I know people who are rejected because of their religious beliefs, for example. There's many more people in that boat than just LGBTs.
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My Thoughts Are With You- Family Is Who You Make It. Blood Doesn't Make It So 45 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
Please people, cut the Bible-bashing crap. Those kind of statements are ignorant and stupid. The Bible doesn't tell us to do those things -- please educate yourself. What te Bible does tell us to do is love and reach out to people. If you want to argue with someone who is discriminating against people for religious reasons, the Bible is your ally, not theirs. Don't try to defame te book -- advocate it instead. Remind them what Jesus taught about love being the most important commandment, and help them see that their priorities are screwed up.
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Why are we not funding this? 43 comments
Better healthcare 7 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
... and anywhere else in the entire world for the foreseeable future. The day we can just run ourselves through a little machine and come out 100% healthy would be an interesting one. :P
Game of life. Hint hint Rockstar 20 comments
supernovamike
· 10 years ago
Cool concept, but bad idea. People need to live their own lives. We waste enough time in virtual worlds already, we don't need more distractions from real life.
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You Just Got Burned. Over B**bs. You Just Got B**b-Burned... 82 comments
supernovamike
· 11 years ago
Except that they are sexual object in that they are sexually attractive... it's basic evolutionary psychology really.
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Light mystery finally explained 10 comments
supernovamike
· 11 years ago
Except if you actually watch the scene, it shows the crates in three dimensions and they are actually NOT stacked like that. They are right on top of each other. Good effort though. :)
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Adding a mentos to a beer. Not what I expected. 21 comments
supernovamike
· 11 years ago
It's okay guys; it just part of a commercial. I'm sure he's fine. And if he's not, he probably got paid good money for it anyway. :P
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Adding a mentos to a beer. Not what I expected. 21 comments
supernovamike
· 11 years ago
That might have been the funniest thing I've ever seen on funsubstance.
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