thepacifist

thepacifist


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Daniel Radcliffe summing it up 9 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
I agree in a lot of cases. And I tried for about five years. But I couldn't move on and I just kept falling more and more in love with her. Now, in my case, she was stringing me along and giving me false hope, which obviously wasn't helpful. But I was at the point where I would have married her and eventually I realized (with the help of some friends) that I needed to get away from her in order to move on.
The entire ordeal was one of the worst things I've ever gone through, and because that's what I associate the friendzone with, it really bugs me when people tell guys to stop complaining about the friendzone.
But again, my interpretation could be vastly different than most people.
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pancakes > you 11 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
:)
Shipping routes around the world 6 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
I ship it!
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soft homo 7 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
Carry on my wayward butt
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Daniel Radcliffe summing it up 9 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
But if the Internet is referring to the friendzone as just guys wanting sex, then I agree that the concept of the friendzone is stupid.
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Daniel Radcliffe summing it up 9 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
Well first of all, it's not about wanting sex. It's about actually falling in love with the person. It's when a guy falls for a girl and realizes that he doesn't want anything more than just having her in his life, loving her, and making her happy, but she is only interested in a friendship. At that stage, neither person has done anything wrong, but the friendzone still exists.
From there, it can develop a number of ways. From my personal experience, I've seen it develop where the girl starts taking advantage of the fact that the guy likes her and will do anything for her. And I've also been in the place where I realize that "just being friends" is off the table. Either she needs to be willing to give us a shot, or I need to stop being friends with her because it's tearing me apart.
I'm sure it can develop a number of different ways, but from my experience, the friendzone has always had very little to do with sex.
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Daniel Radcliffe summing it up 9 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
I think my idea of the friendzone is very different than the rest of the internet's idea of the friendzone.
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pancakes > you 11 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
IT'S REAL!!! OMFG!!!
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pancakes > you 11 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
I knew this wasn't real. I looked at it and said "This isn't real." Then I pulled out a five and checked anyway because I had to be sure.
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This is the power of CryEngine 8 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
Pffft that tree in the background is totally different.
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BUM BUM BUMMMMM 12 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
My author needs to commit to one of those stories instead of this bullshit.
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One is gonna try to save you. The rest are trying to kill you. Which one would you pick 44 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
Hulk or deadpool. I'd be curious to see them go toe to toe. But I think I'd bet on hulk.
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His face tho 15 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
I would have so much fun purposefully not giving Kanye any attention at all.
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What do you suggest we need to begin with, to fix it all? 13 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
However, there is hardly a difference between political parties. Both completely suck and will run the country further into the ground and they've set the system up so that we can only choose between the two parties with no real third options. So even if he isn't just a figurehead, nothing will get better when he's gone, and nothing got better when he took over from Bush.
Deer just found a new home 7 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
"This is my house now."
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Recovering an engagement ring from a vent 10 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
That's impressive
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Most misleading wrenches ever 9 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
For kids!
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23 Emotions People Feel, But Can't Explain 13 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
What is a word but a random selection of letters formed together and given a definition? Shakespeare made up a good portion of the English language. Who's to say we can't come up with a word and assign it a definition that hasn't been assigned to another word before?
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That being said, I have no idea if these are actual defined words or words that someone is creating to define things we all experience.
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Wrong way to cross a rope 3 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
Some people just don't understand how the physical world works.
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There's Actually A Word For It! 14 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
Now they need a word for the sadness, depression, pain one feels about not being able to pronounce a word that accurately describes the sadness, pain, depression one feels about unanswered love or love that is gone.
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23 Emotions People Feel, But Can't Explain 13 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
Yes to all of these things
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that scares me too... 16 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
Yeah... Of old age.
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LOVE weird people like this 12 comments
thepacifist · 9 years ago
Do geese see God?
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