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Excited moaning Oryx 4 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Annoying Zone. Stop trying to date her; she's not interested. If you can't hang out without wishing she changes her mind, don't spend time with her.
It might hurt a bit to disengage but you're wasting your emotions on someone who does not want you. Dis-entangle so you can be free for someone who does want you as a partner. If there's no one around, work on skills and interests so you'll be happy. And ready for better relationships.
Also, as a female: if she's been backed into saying this to you - you are annoying her. She told you she doesn't want to date you. You didn't accept it. She's trying this reframe. It's not a "zone". It's a new statement because you won't LISTEN. And if you feel she's dangling you on a string - bro, that's still on you for not listening.
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Excited moaning Oryx 4 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Annoying Zone. Stop trying to date her; she's not interested. If you can't hang out without wishing she changes her mind, don't spend time with her.
It might hurt a bit to disengage but you're wasting your emotions on someone who does not want you. Dis-entangle so you can be free for someone who does want you as a partner. If there's no one around, work on skills and interests so you'll be happy. And ready for better relationships.
Also, as a female: if she's been backed into saying this to you - you are annoying her. She told you she doesn't want to date you. You didn't accept it. She's trying this reframe. It's not a "zone". It's a new statement because you won't LISTEN. And if you feel she's dangling you on a string - bro, that's still on you for not listening.
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Here Are 17 Of The Best Covid-19 Tattoos 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Where are the other sixteen?
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This missing cat poster in my neighborhood 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Barbarella is a great name!
Books on sale 1 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Onboard with conspiracy theory; 100% NOT onboard if this is a Q Anon dogwhistle.
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Blazing blade 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
I have no idea why this makes me so happy and satisfied, but it does.
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It looks so real 1 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
How slow a reader is that person? Five minutes on one page is a lot.
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Joe "if you caught the flu it ain't the wu" Biden 16 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Just standard (for now) election nonsense - attacks to paint someone as weird because your side's leader is a moron.
Joe "if you caught the flu it ain't the wu" Biden 16 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Just standard (for now) election nonsense - attacks to paint someone as weird because your side's leader is a moron.
How about the Washington Baskins? 1 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Washington Caucasians - profile is a Chad with sunglasses and backwards hat.
Reductive? Sure. Equivalent? 100%
I know not applicable to everyone 6 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Lack of money
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Just an elaborate prank bro 12 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Truth!
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Surgeon General Makes a Mask 4 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Awesome
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Kids are savage 3 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Yeah, but if makeup isn't a positive change, why spend the money?
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Reality is often disappointing 4 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Ricardo Madina
Reality is often disappointing 4 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Better than the ranger who killed someone with a sword, though.
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90's girls and no one posted Sharon Stone 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
She didn't want this shot to be so revealing and was in fact told it would not be. She fought to get it out but lost. This, for me, it's ruined.
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Ignore the red fellas 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
If " bitch" is supposedly not a gendered slur, and is used in place of crybaby or bastard; then he just let you know he pays. If it is a gendered slur, then you don't need to hear any other words he uses anyway.
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Some people are just insane 4 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Fake
It's okay to want time for yourself 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
Not blaming the victim, sorry. Not trying to be harsh to you, if this is how you feel. Tbh, I reacted because it's not a healthy way to think.
I myself just "sometimes have limited bandwidth". That's not a problem. I just can't do much. I'll catch up later. No one wants crazy burnt-out debbidownr, but that isn't therefore proof I need to embrace toxic positivity so I can still 'be there' for people. You don't need to, either. No one does. Don't pick up a cross no one who cares about you would ever hand you.
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It's okay to want time for yourself 2 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
You don't have to apologize. You don't need to take a brave stand, here. Just - the statements listed here are facts. Your life is not a debate.
It's as crazy that you feel people "own" your time or attention as it would be if they insisted all your charging cables were theirs whenever they were low on battery. That's objectively not how reality works.
Don't say 'I don't do it to be rude.' That's weird. Do you think people live their lives to negatively affect you? No? Then quit apologizing for what is crazy-making logic. Live your life and avoid people who make you feel like apologizing for not centering your reality on them. That's, realistically, not an acceptable way to think.
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Wow its true do try it 3 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
I can easily snap my fingers to my thumb, making the noise, without the palm. It's not as loud. Is this some sort of joke, and I'm taking it seriously? Like a play off 'lick your elbow'? I'm just baffled by this post each time I see it.
Aw yeh 15 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
It's RENT. Taxes are rent for being American. No one took it from you.
No, it's not 'your' money since it's already allocated when you took a job in the US.
You get to vote on the people who aportion it. Taxes are not a black hole, or theft.
Just - it's so annoying that we have these other people who live here with all of the awesome benefits of being American and yet act like its some illegal imposition when it's not 100% comfort and fun for them, or when every benefit is not for them personally today.
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Best or worst tattoo ever??? 1 comments
debbidownr · 4 years ago
I mean, it's v cool. But the dual perspective (tattoo and body) would be really distracting during *certain activities*. I'd just have to block it out, regardless of how I felt about it the rest of the time.
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