I appreciate the frustration, but you need to be clear- buying things for a girl does not make her obligated to be romantic (ie have sex) with you. Ask her if she wants to date, then if she says yes, buy your for real girlfriend all the gifts you want.
Exactly, this is where the real issue is. It's not in the boy buying her the gift and expecting something to happen, it is in her accepting the gift and expecting nothing to happen. That is just rude. She should not have accepted it; girls don't seem to understand this.
When has giving a gift ever meant that the person receiving it "owes you" anything? That is the exact opposite of what giving is. He was wrong to expect something in return, if that is why he bought her things. No gift should be given with hope of reciprocation or reward- Especially some kind of romantic/sexual favor.
Its not about "owing" anything. Its like if you buy a woman a drink at a bar. If she accepts it she's saying "I'm also sexually attracted to you." Its manipulative to take the drink without at least giving the man a chance.
I also think its extremely pathetic for a guy to do this kind of thing. I mean Jesus Christ, nobody wants to date someone with so little respect for themselves that they buy diamonds for a 'friend.'
I have news for you guys: if you're friendzoned, it probably means she doesn't find you physically attractive. I've been friendzoned so I know how it feels.
Do as your name and "get a life"...not that you're wrong but, yeah no you're wrong. 1. Girls/Women = NOT bitches. Drop the name. 2. Him buying stuff does not automatically make him "such a nice guy" 3. If she doesn't want anything serious with him there's more to it. 4. You would not REALISTICALLY love this guy infinitely for a bracelet and perfume/spray. You just feel for him. And so do I ;) #justsayin' Didn't mean to be rude I just wanted to point your name out haha. Didn't really mean get a life you seem fine to me hahaha & my response is to ALL in general not just you.
I also think its extremely pathetic for a guy to do this kind of thing. I mean Jesus Christ, nobody wants to date someone with so little respect for themselves that they buy diamonds for a 'friend.'