my friends have a hard time seeing this.

Oh. My. God. Your spelling BREAKS my heart. On a different note, I think it is unhealthy for people to believe in "the one". This concept is relatively modern (think disney films). In the past, people entering relationships expected there to be some really tough times in the relationship and they worked through them. They knew there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and happily ever after. However nowadays, if something goes wrong, couples (especially girls) rationalise it as meaning that they are not meant to be and so they break up in order to continue their search for the mysterious "one". The way I look at things, there are thousands of girls in the world that I could live the rest of my life with, but whichever one I end up with I expect to work hard to make it work.

As true as it is that people don't try as hard these days. The concept of "the one" is even present in religions. So not a modern theory.

My current GF is Mormon, so any questions about the future of our relationship revolve around me eventually getting her into the Celestial Kingdom and being with her forever (in the literal sense). We've had many a talk about the meaning of the LDS church and how I don't find it appealing, but I can understand how others might. Religion, especially if you're born into one, is a very hard to break out of, if you want to do that. My suggestion if you want to stay within a Christian (or whichever religion you happen to be) subset: go to a church gathering and mingle. If you're young, there should be plenty of eligible ladies around. If you want something more secular, then take a theater class or something, a place where like minded people get together.

Jewish so the crowd doesn't mix often and there aren't any theater classes.

Maybe try enrolling at a local community college or something? I'm just spit-balling, please tell me if I'm overstepping my bounds.

Nah man its fine thanks for all the suggestions. And I might enroll into college or university depending onnhow I do on my SATs.

Then you're golden! College is a great place to meet people!

Thanks m8, I shall start my journey! (._.) ( l: ) ( .-. ) ( :l ) (._.)