I wouldn't ever wanna sleep with 50 people just cuz I wouldn't want a loose vagina. Tbh it's not special if you can't even feel it and that's just gross.. It's like throwing a hot dog into a hallway
Well... as far as I get it, it's something along the lines of: if one has plenty of sexual partners they're hard to be in a relationship with because they'd get bored (relationship meaning they don't get to bonk a new, fresh face every night). Given that people are more than just sex-machines, I think it's pretty safe to call bullshit on this one.
As for the plea for this generation to be honest, I completely agree. Honesty is important, people. Don't tell lies.
I don't know about this. Boy or girl, if someone sleeps around, it's best to avoid them, their reputation may be passed on to you. Also, if you don't know that your partner has slept around, you may not think to get yourself tested for any STD's.
Overall, it's bad for anyone to be careless.
Also, why is he comparing this to cereal? People and Cheerios are very different things.
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In answer to your last point: As his analogy shows, choice of cereals and judgement of people are very similar in principle.
A person could sleep with 50 people and if they're safe they might never get an STI/STD, and on the other hand someone could sleep with 2 people and catch something, so everyone should just have lots of safe sex. I can sort of understand about the reputation thing but in my opinion I prefer sex with someone who knows what they are doing, and those are typically the same people that have had a lot of experience.
And maybe he is comparing it to cereal so people can see how ridiculous it is to compare one person to another, when we are all so different!
Anybody that is overly concerned with reputation is somebody who is far too concerned with what strangers think about them. All a reputation is is somebody projecting their own thoughts or feelings on another person.
Self worth should not be tied to number of sexual partners, or lack there of.
$20 is still $20 no matter how many hands it has passed through. And this is coming from someone who only had sex after marriage. Virginity is a personal matter, and shouldn't be used to shame someone, or as a fetish to "conquer" someone.
http://m.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201109/the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women
As for the plea for this generation to be honest, I completely agree. Honesty is important, people. Don't tell lies.
Overall, it's bad for anyone to be careless.
Also, why is he comparing this to cereal? People and Cheerios are very different things.
And maybe he is comparing it to cereal so people can see how ridiculous it is to compare one person to another, when we are all so different!
$20 is still $20 no matter how many hands it has passed through. And this is coming from someone who only had sex after marriage. Virginity is a personal matter, and shouldn't be used to shame someone, or as a fetish to "conquer" someone.