He is indeed right in this post, but have you heard all the other bullshit he's said? I don't think this post makes up for everything else he's said and done.
but true beauty comes from inside, having a positive attitude, something to be proud of, not narcissistic, but proud in yourself, then your inner beauty will be seen emanating from you
I hate when people say true beauty comes from the inside: a guy will always look first at the hot girl rather the nice but considered ugly girl. That´s really nice to say but in reality no one cares about the inner beauty: the first thing we look is the outside of a person
yes, physical beauty is the first attractant, but if the person in question is bitter, hateful, bad attitude, that outer beauty is overcome. However, if you meet a girl and you get to know her, talk with her, find out she truly has a beautiful soul, then you see her in a different light, her inner beauty becomes exposed once you know her.
"unwanted hair"
He contributes to this self loathing. If you've see his video What guys look for in a girl (I think that's the title) he wants a girl that is completely shaven. No hair. He hates hair., And if you're too easy you're a whore. He is also homophobic. Really, He's a bit of a dick
That's like saying you can't be racist if you have a black friend. Just because you associate with someone of ( insert something here ) doesn't change the fact that you make cross the line jokes that shouldn't be made and don't respect them
He said to everyone over twitter/YouTube that he was not homophobic in anyway that he was OK with it bc one his friends is gay... and that was a bad example bc if u don't like black ppl that probably means u won't have a black friend :/
You're just digging this hole deeper for yourself. I know plenty of people who are actually extremely racist, but who have one or two "elite" influential black people as "friends" just to keep up appearances. This guy could be doing the same.
I don't say anything when some one compliments me I just say thanks because I try to talk about another subject but I don't say no I'm not because I charish it when people say it and am afraid of other people agreeing with my statement
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The issue with this is in most cases on the internet (facebook, twitter, instagram, ETC.) is the fact that many women who are that self conscious won't post "OMG I'm so ugly! :( :)" on a post. Many people (including men) who are self-conscious won't post things on the internet for fear of rejection. I'm someone who suffers from depression and I can't take selfies because in my mind everything I do, post, or say needs to be perfect or I'm inadequate. I've never talked about my depression on FS because sometimes the quietest of people are the ones crying out for help. Don't just tell women they're beautiful, explain why.
wow... this is something i can relate to...
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yeah Nash said some things that he shouldn't have said, but that doesn't mean he is always going to be such a jerk. he made a mistake and it's not going to be beneficial to anyone to keep bringing that up. it was his opinion... he's entitled to it.
Very well said. Now if he just hadn't made that video, I could actually believe that he means those things. And girls, just be yourself and take a compliment. The little things you beat yourself up over are nothing in our eyes. Be yourself and the right guy will find you and when he does, never let him go :)
I clearly think that he think it because when he say this kind of nice stuff people say things like 'i don't mind he is still a douchbag to me ' if he say it ppl say that he is an idiot if he dont say it then nobody say anything so why would he say it ? Because he really mean it nash cam andjc (the guys that made the video) keep saying their fan that they're beautiful and they allways cheer them up when they are sad they fan bielieve them, you don't it's okay but imagine being called a douchebag, you would'nt like it. I don't think he do...
In my case, I dont own any social accounts because Im not really interested in them. However when someone complements me personally and they are girls I usually smile but behind those arc lips I think they are just being polite. In the case of a guy complementing me I just make a frown. The thing that males me respond diferently is How each gender had trated me in the past. When I was in elementary school everyone made fun of me. I was usted to heard things like "cow, f*cking ugly, smart ass, fat ass" and
(Cont.) Those words really hurt, specially If youre between ages 6 to 12. When I was 15 I had really strong feelings for a guy (first and only time that this had happen) and he rejected me. Now Im 17 and I feel incapable to find a boyfriend, someone that I could feel comfortable around and viceversa because of all the mean things Ive heard my entire life. So guys, If someday you see me walking down the street and say something nice, Thank you. Although the truth is I might even believe you because Im still hurt.
- Puertorrican guest
I think that half the people in these comments are not very nice. I'm not a fan of Nash Grier and I know he's said some pretty jerky things in the past but it doesn't mean he can't change.
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It makes you a hipocrite to tell girls how to be and make homophobic comments and then make things like this. I agree, some are being harsh but to an extent he deserves it. He and his friends have no real idea how influencial he can be on impressionable teen girls. We all know about the cut for beiber and the girls shaving their heads for his 'cancer'. It can have the same affect as that.
I have a few friends who love the madcon guys and she started skipping meals and shaving a lot more than she needed to because of Nash's video. I'm sure she isn't the only one, too. He has over 9 million followers. Most of which are girls. That video caused a lot of damage to those girls' self esteem and the way they view themselves.
Dear sayorivampyr, if you're concerned that someone will only consider the hot chick next to you as attractive, perhaps you spend too much time with douchebags.
Sincerely, the ugly chick who was lucky enough to land the "right one"
And I hate the both of you. Do you think a woman WANTS to feel that way? Do you think she ENJOYS loathing the image she sees in the mirror? Do you think she CHOOSES to see the stretch marks, the gut, the unwanted hair, the acne and scars every single day and hate her body for them? No woman forces herself to stand in front of the mirror and pinpoint every single flaw on her body like she's a map with all the places she wants to see circled. Don't you dare tell me a woman is being a selfish emotional loner. That woman is the one facing her worst fears in her very own home, her would-be safe haven.
Guys also have issues with insecurities and self-loathing. And we don't even get make-up.
But I do agree with you
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You know if you go to a store and buy make up theyre not gonna deny you because youre a male. You wanna wear make up do it. And dont try to argue that you'd be made fun of because girls get made fun of for makeup all the time.
If you can't take a compliment, I'm sorry, but you don't deserve it. If I think I look like trash, and someone tells me that I don't look too bad, I'm gonna take it
That's you. But some people can't take a compliment simply because they don't believe it. They have severe insecurities and one "you're so pretty" isn't going to change that. Guys need to stop thinking that girls' problems just automatically disappear when anybody compliments us. It's not something they just "can't take". It's something they can't believe.
He contributes to this self loathing. If you've see his video What guys look for in a girl (I think that's the title) he wants a girl that is completely shaven. No hair. He hates hair., And if you're too easy you're a whore. He is also homophobic. Really, He's a bit of a dick
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yeah Nash said some things that he shouldn't have said, but that doesn't mean he is always going to be such a jerk. he made a mistake and it's not going to be beneficial to anyone to keep bringing that up. it was his opinion... he's entitled to it.
- Puertorrican guest
Sincerely, the ugly chick who was lucky enough to land the "right one"
But I do agree with you