Pick a guy. Be clear about what you feel. No matter how smart or perceptive you think we are, you will save everyone time and energy if you come right out and say it.
HAVE NO FEAR! FOR THEALMIGHTYPENIS IS HERE! Be yourself, and be confident with it! If you see a girl u have an inkling for try using a derpy pickup line or try entering the conversation! worse comes to worse she says no, and you move on!
Try going for a girl who has a best friend. Be her OTHER best friend,and she might get a crush on you. Hopefully her friend will find a way to help you get the girl. That's how my boyfriend got me,at least.
The trick is to be comfortable around the opposite sex, try joining a club or group where you will simply just become friends and just talk, if you are comefortable being around and talking to girls/guys, they will feel more comfortable around you then simply you find one you like and talk to them more ask them to hangout a couple times and them maybe ask them on an actuall date (dinner and a movie) and then just go from there :) good luck my fellow funsubsters!!
I know it's been a while, but when I was out there, the worst idea for a FIRST date, is dinner and a movie.
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You give her up to two to three hours of your time and attention in the restaurant, and then spend two to three hours ignoring her at the movies.
And always ask the guy/girl out! Because the worst that will happen is they say no. While that sounds scary, in your 70-100 years of life, that moment will be minor if it doesn't work out but could be major if it did. Never hide how you feel
Do like what my 3 y o niece learn from Dibo the gift dragon basic English lesson :
- Go to her/him
- smile & Say this
"Hi, my name ............. . What is your name?"
I know how, I just can't be bothered to get to know someone, and then watch it end.
I've just accepted that some people are just supposed to be single.
OMG THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!!! I cannot express how grateful I am of you right now! This whole thing was like when someone tells a joke and everyone gets it and is laughing, and I'm just sitting there like, "wat.". But really thank you so so so much.
And at this point I'm too afraid to ask.
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You give her up to two to three hours of your time and attention in the restaurant, and then spend two to three hours ignoring her at the movies.
- Go to her/him
- smile & Say this
"Hi, my name ............. . What is your name?"
I've just accepted that some people are just supposed to be single.
and at this point I'm too afraid to ask... No seriously can someone explain it to me?