That initial sexual attraction is important but is it as important as being a good person anyway.
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· 9 years ago
I think the point here is that you need to be physically attracted to the person in order for a relationship to be successful. Everyone's version of "looks" is a little different, and some people place more value on them than others. But if your most basic instincts (fuck to reproduce) are saying no, it's probably not going to last. The phrase is "love at first sight" but I think it's really lust at first sight.
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Also, I really appreciate the picture that is this post.
Thank you! I try to explain this to people all the time. You need to be attracted to someone in order to have any sort of long lasting successful relationship. However, their personality matters just as much.
Well, if they don't even try to look good then yes it matters, but if they put forth effort to impress you then you should love them anyways :) It's nice to have somebody try to impress you.
my friends are all like "really?" when I say I think looks are important. It's looks that will draw somebody's attention a lot of the time, like the first gate- then if they're a dick/bitch, you turn around and walk straight back out. If they're a compatible person- you open the second gate.
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That's a really good explanation for it. I like the gates analogy.
There was this boy at my school when I was a freshman and I thought he was one of the ugliest boys I'd ever seen. Well we got to know each other then one day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed and now he's the best looking man I've ever seen and he hasn't changed a bit
I FORBID IT.