Some women enjoy anal and others don't and it really depends on their experience during their first few tries . It's something that you either love or hate and there isn't really anything in between those two emotions. Also, deanancas, shitting backwards may not be the best term to describe how girls feel during anal.
What is this bullshit? Some people like anal, some people don't. Why would her boyfriend taking a dildo up the ass make her want to do anal when she didn't want to before? Fuck these people are dumb. OP is a massive faggot.
The key word there is pressuring. The boyfriend is trying to force the girl to do something she clearly doesn't want to do. It also doesn't make her want to do it, that bit was there to show how ridiculous it would be for her to pressure him into doing it.
"she clearly doesn't want to"
We don't know that for sure. If a dude is pressuring you for something and you don't want to, don't. It's that simple. No dildos required.
Not that simple, a lot of boyfriends keep pressuring even after you say no. A lot of girls feel they must do this to please their boyfriends. What's needed is better sex ed in schools and a better sexual representation of women in media. A lot of women don't feel they have a choice in these situations, but garlog you don't give a fuck about that so eh.
"a lot of boyfriends keep pressuring even after you say no."
Then leave them.
"A lot of girls feel they must do this to please their boyfriends."
It will please them, but thy still don't have to do it.
"What's needed is better sex ed in schools"
It's got nothing to do with sex ed.
"and a better sexual representation of women in media."
What?
"A lot of women don't feel they have a choice in these situations"
There feeling are wrong.
"garlog you don't give a fuck about that"
Not particularly, no.
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· 9 years ago
Garlog, let me just say this. You are completely ignorant to the feelings of these women. You think they can just leave, but it's not that simple. It's never that simple. And Sex Ed IS needed to let.people realize that you must always be exceedingly careful about these sortsnof things. And those feelings may be wrong, but there are so many factors that they have to calculate that it feels impossible. Peer pressure males people do incredibly strange things, and when you're in a serious and sexual relationship with someone, you're tied together in dozens of ways. Sometimes possesively, financially, definitely emotionally. And at times maritally. There's so many things to deal with, and so much pressure on these people. Also, sometimes people are in abusive relationships. It's terrible but true. And they're afraid to leave them, because they might be hurt or even killed. We've heard all the stories. They need help, and they need to be acknowledged, instead of being dismissed by people.
Garlog, I can see that you are clearly male and do not understand women. Many omen, especially when younger, fall in love easily. Many men, especially assholey men, delude women into thinking that they love them. To prove their "love" the women will do what the man asks. The man may also say something like "If you love me you'll do (insert sexual task)". This is pressure that seems gentle and nice. It masks the wanting to take advantage of someone some what well. A girl in "love" may see the doucheyness of the boy easier if he said "bitch bend over now" but he is trying to mask it with whatever "niceness he can put into it" The woman still thinks it is love and they will do it. Also, this usually happens when you are deep (haha slight pun) into the relationship. This means that there is trust that isn't broken by one sleazy act.
"You are completely ignorant to the feelings of these women."
I'm not ignorant to their feelings, I just don't really care about them.
"You think they can just leave, but it's not that simple."
They can just leave. It is that simple. They have legs. It can, however, be hard. But that's their cross to bear. Your feelings are your own responsibility.
"And Sex Ed IS needed to let.people realize that you must always be exceedingly careful about these sortsnof things."
Careful about feels? And how is that something to be discussed in Sex Ed?
I'll continue this in another post.
Oh my god can you guys stop?!! Every fucking time I see this comment chain its just people insulting each other for belives and points of view! Quit it!
"And those feelings may be wrong, but there are so many factors that they have to calculate that it feels impossible.Peer pressure males people do incredibly strange things, and when you're in a serious and sexual relationship with someone, you're tied together in dozens of ways. Sometimes possesively, financially, definitely emotionally. And at times maritally. There's so many things to deal with, and so much pressure on these people."
This is all their burden. They have to reconcile their feelings with reality and make decisions based on that. Also, for clarity, I would like to know what you mean by "these people".
"Also, sometimes people are in abusive relationships. It's terrible but true. And they're afraid to leave them, because they might be hurt or even killed. We've heard all the stories."
The fear makes leaving difficult, but again it's still a simple action to take.
One more post to go.
@guest
All you did was make women sound like easily manipulated idiots that have no ability to understand or act against their emotions and need to have their emotions kept in check by everyone around them.
@strangelyacoustic (I hope it was obvious that the first part was directed at you as well.)
You make the women you're talking about sound similarly inferior as well.
@both
I'll end with this. If women were as naive and manipulable as you assert that they are then they should get back in the kitchen and be led around and protected by men, because they would really need that protection, as they obviously wouldn't have the ability to protect themselves.
However I think that women have the ability to learn and understand how they feel, and have the capacity to take ownership of their actions based on how they interpret what they feel. As such I hold the to same standard as I hold men.
Oh but maybe I dont want to unfollow. Maybe I just want to know what happens on posts I've commented on.
Maybe I want to know if someone have an opinion on my choice of words.
And btw, your point is valid, but your aggressive way of telling it makes people think you are a random dumbhead. We both know you can do better than that! Be reasonable and easy with your words. Dont let the opponents word get to you. Geez this is actually internet! Just accept that they have another opinion.
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Have a nice night, garlog.
"Oh but maybe I dont want to unfollow. Maybe I just want to know what happens on posts I've commented on.
Maybe I want to know if someone have an opinion on my choice of words."
Sure, but you can't have it both ways. You either follow the comments and see what other people are typing, some of which you won't like, or you stop following the comments.
"your point is valid"
Thank you.
"your aggressive way of telling it makes people think you are a random dumbhead."
That's their problem if they can't handle rough words and make silly assumptions based on them.
"Be reasonable"
I think I generally am.
"and easy with your words."
Meh, that's not really my jam.
"Dont let the opponents word get to you."
I don't think I do.
"Just accept that they have another opinion. "
I do accept that they have another opinion. That's doesn't mean I won't challenge that opinion.
"Have a nice night, garlog. "
Same to you.
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· 9 years ago
Garlog, you're taking the emotive aspect of human nature out of the equation. That's the simple truth. I'm not saying that women and naïve and submissive, I say most people are. And leaving is far from difficult, but you make it sound like just saying no and walking away. It's never that simple. That's why I say you're completely ignorant. No actual relationship will end that efficiently and abruptly. It's not a simple action, and if it were we'd never hear the stories of abusive relationships, and things like #WhyIStayed wouldn't exist. But they do. I wish we had the world you describe, but we don't. And you just don't seem to realize that. Also, about the unfollowing thing. I think that her rant was a bit unnecessary and her point didn't convey well, but tearing apart her argument is what you do in a debate, not when someone's complaining about notifications. And also, I do apologise for the grammatical errors and typos evident in my writing at times, as I typically use my phone.
"you're taking the emotive aspect of human nature out of the equation."
No I'm not, I'm saying that people should should be shackled by their emotions, not that emotions aren't relevant.
"I'm not saying that women and naïve and submissive, I say most people are."
Most people are naive on some level, but I don't think most people are significantly submissive.
"you make it sound like just saying no and walking away."
Walking away is over simplifying it. I mean cutting ties with the other person. In the long run, yeah it takes some time, but you only need to take the first step to get away from most of the immediate problems.
I'll continue this in the next post.
"It's not a simple action, and if it were we'd never hear the stories of abusive relationships, and things like #WhyIStayed wouldn't exist. But they do. I wish we had the world you describe, but we don't. And you just don't seem to realize that."
I'm aware we don't have that world. I'm asserting that we don't have it is because some people act more submissive than they ought to. I think that people can be taught to become people who won't be to afraid or too emotionally confused to deal with a shitty situation in a productive way. Granted this is probably something to be taught as part of an upbringing rather than being taught to people in the here and now, but I thing it's entirely possible.
"tearing apart her argument is what you do in a debate, not when someone's complaining about notifications."
By whose authority? Also, I wasn't really picking it apart, I was just replying to each piece individually.
One more short one.
"I do apologise for the grammatical errors and typos evident in my writing at times"
It's fine, they're minimal.
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· 9 years ago
Human emotions are much more complex than you give them credit for. If they weren't, people wouldn't be in these relationships to start with, and maybe no relationships at all. We definitely need to educate people to better manage relationships and all, but things are very hard to work through. And being more dominant won't do much when your partner won't hesitate to hurt you. Just look through #WhyIStayed and #WhyILeft. Also, whose authority?! It's just too much of a response.
"Human emotions are much more complex than you give them credit for. If they weren't, people wouldn't be in these relationships to start with, and maybe no relationships at all."
What gives you that idea?
"And being more dominant won't do much when your partner won't hesitate to hurt you."
It does if you leave.
"It's just too much of a response. "
My point was that that's your opinion, and not mine.
@bingbangwala
"he's a sad sad troll"
I'm not sad, nor am I a troll.
"it's terribly boring"
It's interesting enough for people to continue commenting.
"it"
?
"seems to derive pleasure from it"
Debate is fun.
@durell479
still no
She wrote about a guy being a homophobe and disrespectful towards men in comparison to her feminist ideals about anal sex. So I'm pretty sure 'misandrous homophobe' would be the correct term. Unless she is one of those self absorbed feminazi types. Then I would consider thinking about where you are coming from.
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We don't know that for sure. If a dude is pressuring you for something and you don't want to, don't. It's that simple. No dildos required.
Then leave them.
"A lot of girls feel they must do this to please their boyfriends."
It will please them, but thy still don't have to do it.
"What's needed is better sex ed in schools"
It's got nothing to do with sex ed.
"and a better sexual representation of women in media."
What?
"A lot of women don't feel they have a choice in these situations"
There feeling are wrong.
"garlog you don't give a fuck about that"
Not particularly, no.
I'm not ignorant to their feelings, I just don't really care about them.
"You think they can just leave, but it's not that simple."
They can just leave. It is that simple. They have legs. It can, however, be hard. But that's their cross to bear. Your feelings are your own responsibility.
"And Sex Ed IS needed to let.people realize that you must always be exceedingly careful about these sortsnof things."
Careful about feels? And how is that something to be discussed in Sex Ed?
I'll continue this in another post.
This is all their burden. They have to reconcile their feelings with reality and make decisions based on that. Also, for clarity, I would like to know what you mean by "these people".
"Also, sometimes people are in abusive relationships. It's terrible but true. And they're afraid to leave them, because they might be hurt or even killed. We've heard all the stories."
The fear makes leaving difficult, but again it's still a simple action to take.
One more post to go.
All you did was make women sound like easily manipulated idiots that have no ability to understand or act against their emotions and need to have their emotions kept in check by everyone around them.
@strangelyacoustic (I hope it was obvious that the first part was directed at you as well.)
You make the women you're talking about sound similarly inferior as well.
@both
I'll end with this. If women were as naive and manipulable as you assert that they are then they should get back in the kitchen and be led around and protected by men, because they would really need that protection, as they obviously wouldn't have the ability to protect themselves.
However I think that women have the ability to learn and understand how they feel, and have the capacity to take ownership of their actions based on how they interpret what they feel. As such I hold the to same standard as I hold men.
You have a star beside your name, so I assume you know where the "Unfollow Comments" button is.
Maybe I want to know if someone have an opinion on my choice of words.
And btw, your point is valid, but your aggressive way of telling it makes people think you are a random dumbhead. We both know you can do better than that! Be reasonable and easy with your words. Dont let the opponents word get to you. Geez this is actually internet! Just accept that they have another opinion.
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Have a nice night, garlog.
Maybe I want to know if someone have an opinion on my choice of words."
Sure, but you can't have it both ways. You either follow the comments and see what other people are typing, some of which you won't like, or you stop following the comments.
"your point is valid"
Thank you.
"your aggressive way of telling it makes people think you are a random dumbhead."
That's their problem if they can't handle rough words and make silly assumptions based on them.
"Be reasonable"
I think I generally am.
"and easy with your words."
Meh, that's not really my jam.
"Dont let the opponents word get to you."
I don't think I do.
"Just accept that they have another opinion. "
I do accept that they have another opinion. That's doesn't mean I won't challenge that opinion.
"Have a nice night, garlog. "
Same to you.
No I'm not, I'm saying that people should should be shackled by their emotions, not that emotions aren't relevant.
"I'm not saying that women and naïve and submissive, I say most people are."
Most people are naive on some level, but I don't think most people are significantly submissive.
"you make it sound like just saying no and walking away."
Walking away is over simplifying it. I mean cutting ties with the other person. In the long run, yeah it takes some time, but you only need to take the first step to get away from most of the immediate problems.
I'll continue this in the next post.
I'm aware we don't have that world. I'm asserting that we don't have it is because some people act more submissive than they ought to. I think that people can be taught to become people who won't be to afraid or too emotionally confused to deal with a shitty situation in a productive way. Granted this is probably something to be taught as part of an upbringing rather than being taught to people in the here and now, but I thing it's entirely possible.
"tearing apart her argument is what you do in a debate, not when someone's complaining about notifications."
By whose authority? Also, I wasn't really picking it apart, I was just replying to each piece individually.
One more short one.
It's fine, they're minimal.
What gives you that idea?
"And being more dominant won't do much when your partner won't hesitate to hurt you."
It does if you leave.
"It's just too much of a response. "
My point was that that's your opinion, and not mine.
no
@tarkus_swagger
Like what?
"he's a sad sad troll"
I'm not sad, nor am I a troll.
"it's terribly boring"
It's interesting enough for people to continue commenting.
"it"
?
"seems to derive pleasure from it"
Debate is fun.
@durell479
still no
>no such thing as man-hating
kek