To your first point: as a guy, I almost always find bikinis sexier. And most guys I know have agreed.
To your second point: ( ͡ʘ ͜ʖ ͡ʘ) (yeah, you have a point there)
I don't get the point of sexy underwear. I mean, if you're wearing it around a guy, most likely they're not gonna be looking at it for too long(if you know what I mean)
I'm only sixteen so i can't really say what's the point of sexy underwear around guys, but something i do know is that when my underwear is pretty and i see myself using it on the mirror i feel good about the way i look. So maybe that's the whole point, self confidence
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· 8 years ago
Badasslatina you're right. Totally about confidence. It can also be used as a code, like a subtle "I'm interested."
the bikini underwear thing drives me nuts, plus a bra holds boobs up and a bikini rarely does, making the panty set actually both less revealing and better looking. as for sexy underwear, i know for myself, i feel better knowing what i am wearing under my clothes, i really dont bother much for boys cuz yeah that comes off right away.
I mean, I still wear sexy underwear because I like feeling sexy, but I'm pretty sure if I'm letting a guy see me in my underwear then hes not going to be too focused on the fabric
You might be surprised. Underwear is like wrapping paper, and if you've gone to the effort and expense of getting it just right, a little bit of attention and appreciation is the least I can do, you know?
About the last one..
Bikini: yes, I'm wearing this on purpose so people can look at me. Look all you like!
Bra/panties: I didn't intend on people looking at me. Please don't look!
(I hoped this made a little sense lmao)
Yeah, it's all about consent really. A woman in a bikini is consenting to that much skin being shown in public, a woman in her underwear may or may not be consenting to the same thing.
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It makes sense. It's about choice. In a bikini I'm choosing to be seen in it. In underwear I'm generally not choosing to be seen in it.
To your second point: ( ͡ʘ ͜ʖ ͡ʘ) (yeah, you have a point there)
Bikini: yes, I'm wearing this on purpose so people can look at me. Look all you like!
Bra/panties: I didn't intend on people looking at me. Please don't look!
(I hoped this made a little sense lmao)