Sorry, but we can't keep teaching kids how not to bully, instead we should teach them how to stand up for themselves. We don't need people who are protected by others, we need people that stand up for themselfs.
Who agrees with me?
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· 9 years ago
If you ever become pres
I might actually start voting
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· 9 years ago
I agree. Bullying is the part of human nature. Either your kid can be a pussy and run to their over protective parents, or stand up for themselves.
We need both, teaching for the bullies who don't realize what they are doing, and teaching for the victims because there will always be bullies who don't care that they are causing pain. And just because somebody has trouble standing up for themselves doesn't mean that it is their fault. That's called victim blaming, and its a dick move.
Grandmagif if partially correct - bullying is a part of human nature but is found in other species as well. It's just nature! We DO need to stop raising kids who can't fend for themselves. My parents taught me never to make trouble, but to damn sure take care of business IF it's unavoidable.
@milksbestfriend
I believe that maybe victim blaming can be correct right here, because it is logical to think that kids wouldn't be bullied if they didn't let themselves be bullied.
Plus, I am pretty sure bullies realize what they are doing, its mostly conscious.
When I was in elementary, all we would learn is how to stand up for yourself. I never had one discussion with a teacher about not bullying. It's almost as if they just "assumed" we knew better. I get it can be different in other places, but just remember that we need both.
Yeah, being a german I missed the joke, didn't get the short form of the (number of) fucks. Being a german, I could only focus on your faulty translation. Which kind of ruined the joke, sorry to insist, being a german.
That guy you abused mentally or physically? His life is as perfectly normal as it can be. But he's a human being and deserves respect so just DON'T BULLY
Why can't everyone just be nice? It sucks how so many people are mean and hurtful to people. Nobody deserves to be treated so awfully. I wish I could zap away all the hatred and anger and cruelty in the world.
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· 9 years ago
I think we should have a quiz for everyone who hates people based on their life choices then give them 5 days to change
If they don't
Purge them
I have a sick twisted mind
Would you be able to change your view of wanting anyone who hates people based on their life choices to have five days to change or they get purged within five days?
Although I get what they're going for it doesn't matter what their story is just don't be a dickhead. That man who was crying he could have a dying mother or he could have just seen a particularly emotional episode of his favorite show. The girl you called a slut - she could be a virgin she could have slept with everyone but how does it affect you? The old mans scars it could have been fighting for our country or he could have fallen over going to the bathroom but if you make fun of an old guys scars you're an asshole. It doesn't matter why their doing what they're doing if you bully you're a dick.
Or instead of teaching people to get upset about every little thing said or done to them, we teach them how to handle it in a responsible manner. Life isn't fair, you're not always going to win or get a trophy, and not everyone is going to like you. Get over it.
what most people miss is most bullies are bullies because they are bullied elsewhere, like at home. the best fix for bullying is to help the bullies themselves, theres a reason people, especially children, bully, and its not because they are simply bad people.
As a parent, I don't want to be everyone's hero, I want to be my son's hero. If my sons get bullied, I guarantee you that my first move will not to go help the bully because: 1. I don't think my son would understand why and I don't want him to feel betrayed and. 2. Helping the bully getting a better environment IF this is the problem, should be the society's/government role through the school. Maybe in fantasia the victims help their victimizer and everybody becomes friends but in real life my obligations are to me and mines first. So even if we didn't miss the fact that bullies are bullied, everyone will still hate bullies because what are you gonna do? Turn the other cheek?
no one expects the PARENT of the bullied child to help the bully, that would be stupid. the SCHOOL however should be examining the case. and of course, theres two main types of bullying, one child bullied by many, or one child doing the bullying. this is obvs. about one child who bullies, not one kid who is picked on by many. when one kid is bullying it should be a signal to the school to investigate, and check out the kids life, before simply punishing. if little billy is getting beat at home, calling home to tell his daddy hes making trouble is gunna do the opposite of improve the situation. of course it is difficult for us, from any angle, to ever accept that out idea of a villain could also be a victim, so we do not do well at this.
Who agrees with me?
I might actually start voting
I believe that maybe victim blaming can be correct right here, because it is logical to think that kids wouldn't be bullied if they didn't let themselves be bullied.
Plus, I am pretty sure bullies realize what they are doing, its mostly conscious.
What?
"You think you know them."
No I don't.
If they don't
Purge them
I have a sick twisted mind
We just need to stop being pussies