Being nice doesn't mean they should go out with you either
9 years ago by defrequest · 2206 Likes · 13 comments · Popular
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metalman
· 9 years ago
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You just described what the friendzone is. It's a relationship in which one party wants a romantic and/or sexual relationship from another in a friendship while the other doesn't.
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nerdsarecool1212
· 9 years ago
Yes the friendzone is real
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guest
· 9 years ago
the freindzone is real but blaming the other person and calling them a bitch/dick is wrong
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guest
· 9 years ago
Yup. I think the whole blaming of the uninterested party for not immediately being interested in them, and then only being nice to them in hopes of forming a relationship is messed up. You aren't even a friend if all you want from someone is a relationship.
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neon
· 9 years ago
So it could be considered, in that instance, the creepy asshole zone?
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guest
· 9 years ago
Friendzone is really the Rejectedzone.
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texasranger
· 9 years ago
Well what about people who get out of the friendzone and start dating ive done that like twice
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guest
· 9 years ago
You can grow to become attracted to someone. A person can be placed in the friendzone originally because of lingering feelings for someone else that then fade, not being in the right place for a relationship at the time, wanting to know a person well before starting any more serious relationship (wanting a firm foundation of at least LIKING someone before jumping head first physically) or any number of reasons. I think people simplify the "friendzone" to mean "she wants a nice guy - I'm a nice guy - why doesn't she want me" when each person has a back story, feelings, history. Sometimes things change, sometimes they don't. Sometimes it has to do with physical attraction. Sometimes it doesn't. A girl isn't a bitch for friendzoning someone, a guy isn't a douche that feels entitled to sex by simply wanting to leave the friendzone - but with communication, even if nothing changes, by respecting the other person's humanity and well-being I think this whole "friendzone" thing would work out
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guest
· 9 years ago
I am also really sorry for the long response that only partially relates to your comment. I suppose I just had a lot on my mind. Have a lovely day!
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theodorerex
· 9 years ago
Texas ranger you the real MVP
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guest
· 9 years ago
At least he/she isn't completely getting rid of you. Sometimes having them in your life is better than not at all!
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magicueen
· 9 years ago
You know what's worse than friendzone? For me that's girlfriend zone.. when you find out the only reason he wants to be with you is he could be your boyfriend otherwise he can't even stand you :,-(
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chuck_bartowski
· 9 years ago
4 months ago I was told, "friendship" is all she could offer me. I bit cause she's lovely. This past week weve gone to a Hockey game, got drinks during sunday night football, and a movie date. You can totally get out of it! The best part is I didn't know the hockey game was a date until I took her home.
