I'm 21 and don't want kids either, and I understand you maybe are right and will never want kids in your life, but I do think you should consider waiting as this is a pretty permanent solution, while they're are many ways to not get pregnant while still enjoying sex nowadays.
So maybe don't close too early a door that you might one day want to cross.
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· 8 years ago
I just don't understand why anyone would want kids. I've never got it. People say children are a blessing but I've always seen it as a curse. I like my life as it is with my husband and my cat and I wouldn't want it ruined by having a baby. I like sleeping in, I love being able to do what I want when I want. A child would be a HUGE burden. People will probably say I'm selfish for wanting to have a hysterectomy but why is it selfish to look out for yourself?
I've been on the pill before but it made me depressed and gain weight so I came off it.
People want kids because it's in our genes to reproduce, that is what we were made for. I don't want any kids myself (I'm only 20) but there are many people who do because they're bored with their life's, and a child brings pleasures, and of course pains, that nothing else can. It is in our DNA coding to keep our genes alive, that is how we are hardwired.
People might also want kids because they love caring for another human, watching it grow up, and learn things. Even with the bad, the overall experience can be touching and full of a different type of love than one may have felt before. But everyone is entitled to their own wants and opinions. If you want kids, go ahead. If not, then don't. No one should force people to live a life they dont want
Fucking BS
So maybe don't close too early a door that you might one day want to cross.
I've been on the pill before but it made me depressed and gain weight so I came off it.