It's hilarious when you actually know that when these things happen at award shows they are PLANNED. Both the ladies in the audience and our adorable Neil Patrick Harris not only knew this was going to happen, they know exactly what each other are going to say and when and it's been rehearsed. They're comedians so get over it. It's absolutely ridiculous when people can't even tell a joke especially when it's their job. It's not like they were crashing the show, he knew full well and was apart of the entire thing.
When women do it, it's meant as fun, and they don't really expect it will happen. When men do it, they totally expect it will happen, and they feel entitled for it to happen at their request.
When men do it... cops, the news and restraining orders are involved.
I get your point but it's just a joke. Chill.