I wish they would let us do something like this at my daughter's grave. They are extremely strict about what we can and cannot do thought. We couldn't even get a headstone that stood up. They had to be flat to the ground.
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That's so horrible! You had to deal with the loss of your child, and you couldn't even have the grave the way you'd like, to remember her the way you want to. I'm so sorry for your loss xxx
I always bring my kids to see their late sister. We sit and talk to her. It helps us deal with her passing. Something like this helps the child associate their sibling with happy memories instead of being freaked out when they go to the cemetary. My other daughter used to not even get out of the car because she was so scared. We now bring toys and sit and she is fine now.
Haha (sorry for the hahas), you've probably never been to orthodox Balkans before, most notably Romania. My sister (Serbia ,shot herself )has her own chapel, small church even, they even build them replica of the houses so they can "live" there ,with TV sets and all, chargers for iPhones. Google Romania grave flat screen. Don't let me even starte on Romania. They hold weddings for unwed daughters with complete strangers that died on the same day, so they don't stay spinsters, coffin to coffin, and music and all ("normal" happy music).Oh yeah I completely repressed that, my sister also was buried in a wedding dress (cause she broke off with married man, narco boss, who got busted ,and got other guy speed dating and speed proposing her, but never got to the wedding, so they dressed her up in white, "to prove that she "kept her honor "",and the other guy also got killed (in a car "accident" ,I say narco boss got him, but the town says She got him )
*sunglasses*
...jolley good time.