Not really
Eligible to be a
Verified LGBT member
Existentially, but
Raiding villages is
Good for the economy
Only if you
Never remember
Not the aubergines but the
Applicable liquids like
Gels,
Including the
Villagers that you
Economically stole from
Young people
Often
Underestimate the
Umbrella effect of the
People's liberation movement.
@needmorec4 i probably hate tumblr more than anybody on this planet but you just went full retard. This is about who you like based on their sex. Nothing about genders.
I didn't realize your "sexuality" was different then your "sex." Also I didn't get it earlier bc I read it very early on the morning before I got my coffee lol
Lmao demisexual just means that you have to be friends in order to develop romantic attraction (I think).
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So taking the time to form an emotional bond with someone before having romantic and/or sexual feelings for them is something I should see a psychologist about?
You're not in any position to define what is real, and what is not.
Especially when thousands, possibly millions of other people share the demisexual quality, as I do.
Yeah dude my girlfriend is demisexual. It's a real thing
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· 8 years ago
Tht's not a sexuality though. I know what demi sexual is. It's literally just a made up term for "I don't fall in love with people I don't know" which is just a personality trait not a sexuality.
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· 8 years ago
I share that "quality" I'm just content enough to know that it's just another one of my feats. Nothing about my sexuality.
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· 8 years ago
Demisexual is one word. And by definition, it means you have to form an emotional bond with someone over a period of time before you are able to feel any sort of romantic or sexual attraction to that person.
It is an orientation that is not chosen.
It is also also a part of the asexuality spectrum, which is a legitimate sexuality.
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n-n-no. Just. No. it's just a trait. Sexuality regards your attraction to gender. Not "Uh I'm not attracted to that person, but when a bond is formed I will be attracted" that's just how you prefer it.
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I agree with you there, but it is, by definition, a sexuality
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· 8 years ago
And I disagree, and to the people dislikng. Get emotionally bonded with my dick and suck it
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· 8 years ago
Alright alright, I think isuck479 has won with that last remark, and his overall argument. GG
That remark, yeah. Still not convinced on his argument.
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· 8 years ago
Ctrl C'd and V'd from another webpage.
Sexual orientation is about who you are attracted to now how you are attracted to them.
If you’re gay/lesbian, you’re attracted to your own gender.
If you’re straight, you’re attracted to the opposite gender.
If you’re ace, you’re attracted to no gender.
If you’re bi, you’re attracted to both.
Saying “I’m demisexual, that means I’m only attracted once I’m in love with you” doesn’t tell WHO you’re attracted to, but only HOW you’re attracted to them.
So what if you’re gay or straight or whatever but only attracted once you know the person well?
So fucking what?
It doesn’t make you special. You don’t fucking need a special word for it.
Dude, as long as it doesn't endanger people, why bother fighting against it? Demisexuals aren't a threat to society so why are you so passionate about them not being real? Did a demisexual murder your family and steal your girlfriend?
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· 8 years ago
You confuse diligence for passion. I'm simply supporting my friend @isuck479 with evidence in a debate. I don't really care about what people call themselves - I'm just presenting my opinion that demisexuality doesn't sound like a real thing.
There can always be terms to describe something. We can call a bird a yellow bird, a finch, an American goldfinch, or Spinus tristis. None of these terms would be wrong. Thusly, if you have a word which you think can describe yourself, it is as correct as any other term. There is no need to call someone out as wrong or pretentious. All words were simply made up at some point anyway.
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Good one. It does endager people. We already try and intergrate mentally damaged people into "normal societes" and it never works out, e.g. terrorism. Ideas that embrace mental problems instead of finding solutions to them ho unnoticed and cause bottlnecks in society.
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· 8 years ago
@isuck479
You're comparing something coming up with a name for their inability to love anyone they haven't forked an emotional bond with.
I think that's stupid and is retarding the mental evolution of the human race.
I think demisexuality is good.
Love at first sight shouldn't happen, because you're Lilly just falling for the persons looks.
ITS NOT A MENTAL PROBLEM TO SIMPLY COME UP WITH A NAME TO CALL WHAT YOU FEEL
Oh you're happy? That's a mental disorder!!1!1 there's no such thing as happiness1!!1!
That's how stupid you sound.
People categorizing themselves as demisexual is not hurting you, it's not affecting you, nor is it hurting us as a race, you're just too butthurt and lazy to add an extra word to your vocabulary so instead you fight against it, no matter how many people feel what demisexiality is by definition; nothing but the inability to love someone without forming an emotional bond with them first.
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· 8 years ago
You totally misunderstood. I am saying the creation of these unnecassary identities celebrates unstable mindsets. Like I said before, just because you make a connection with someone to be attracted to them doesn't mean it's a sexuality. It just means it's your preference.
Unstable? I suppose any new term in our language would create instabilities in our minds. If we come up with a new word for that feeling when you're in a place that feels just slightly off, even though it was fine the day before, we can't ever use it, or we'll go absolutely bonkers. If we discover a new type of cancer, we can't call it by a new name, because it's just cancer, why should it feel special? New plant species? Just call it green long stalky thing. It's just a name. If it describes them, even in a seemingly insignificant way, why can't they use it?
Ever seen that post about needing a specific sound for, 'there are bees here, we should leave immediately'? The response was, 'there already is a sound for that, it sounds like this, "there are bees here, we should leave immediately"' Same situation.
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Okay I'm just gonna come out and say it. When i say unstable, I mean people who need extra titles because they wana be special. Nowadays we celebrate difference simply because it's "different" and not because it's useful. Creating more sexualities, yes you read that right *creating*, is simply a form of people wanting an extra title to their name to seem impressive. This is also why we celebrate depression etc. Also why kids are diagnosed with stuff that could easily be "cured" by teaching them. Celebrating this type of mentality will eventually make everyone and anyone ultimately undefinable, simply because they want an extra title. Now for some they are tricked into believing that they are or have whatever it is someone created, those are the people I say should see a psychologist.
I know it's been said before, but why the hell does it matter to you? No ones getting hurt with these sexualities so why should it matter what someone is ?
Exactly. As long as they're not having sex with cats or something,who cares?
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· 8 years ago
I literally just explained why. Lemme put it into liberal senses. If a bunch of white dudes don't like black dudes but do nothing to harm or attack the black dudes in anyway, it is still a shitty thing to allow them to be racist because you are promoting their mindset by allowing it to exist and any person interested in what the white dudes have to say are going to be brainwashed and not like black dudes. Same thing applies to CREATING genders/sexuality. It's embracing social weakness and giving people extra tags so that they can try and be "different"
Comparing racism to positive gender/sexuality identity. Fascinating.
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Again, you fail to understand. It's the promotion of shitty mindsets. Stop giving kiddies the attention they don't deserve. Stop creating things for them to simply stand out and be useless. Demisexuality isn't real, it's a personality trait not a sexuality. Promoting it as a sexuality will make people who simply prefer emotional connections think they're sexuality is totes different from like everyone else dude. Giving them boosted ego because our generation thrives on being different but useless. A prime example, your guys's opinions (That was a joke)
My father says it best, "You aren't special, you know that, right? Yeah, you're special to me, but to the rest of the world, you're not special. If you don't want the world to shit on you, you have to make yourself special." - My Dad
What isuck is saying is that demisexual isn't a separate sexuality, it's just a word that means you won't fuck just anybody, you need an emotional connection first, which is, like, normal, isn't it? Am I right?
Pansexual means you would date anyone of any gender with no preference. Bisexual means you only like two genders,and you (typically) have a preference.
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· 8 years ago
There are only 2 genders tho. (Trans sexual being the exception)
I understand how all of these corrolate back to their sexuality except for the homosexual horsie. Like you swing between guys and gals for bi
You go one way for straight
You sit going no where for asexual
But like ??? On the horse metaphor
Am swinging
Is comfy
Can confirm
Is bi
On swing
Whee
I can't tell if I'm thirsty or need sleep
Eligible to be a
Verified LGBT member
Existentially, but
Raiding villages is
Good for the economy
Only if you
Never remember
Not the aubergines but the
Applicable liquids like
Gels,
Including the
Villagers that you
Economically stole from
Young people
Often
Underestimate the
Umbrella effect of the
People's liberation movement.
Swing looks fun.
Is swing fun?
Lots of fun
Whee
LOOK AT IT
*wheezing*
I can't even keep track of all these genders
Your sex refers to if you were born with a penis or a vagina. Not that hard. Whatever you identify as is your gender
Sex refers to what's in your pants
Gender is the state of being that, not affected by biological terms
It's in the definition.
https://www.google.com/search?q=gender&oq=gender&aqs=chrome..69i57j35i39j0l2.1942j0j4&client=ms-android-verizon&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8
This post, however, is about sexuality, which is the sexual and/or emotional attraction to a certain sex or gender.
You're not in any position to define what is real, and what is not.
Especially when thousands, possibly millions of other people share the demisexual quality, as I do.
It is an orientation that is not chosen.
It is also also a part of the asexuality spectrum, which is a legitimate sexuality.
Sexual orientation is about who you are attracted to now how you are attracted to them.
If you’re gay/lesbian, you’re attracted to your own gender.
If you’re straight, you’re attracted to the opposite gender.
If you’re ace, you’re attracted to no gender.
If you’re bi, you’re attracted to both.
Saying “I’m demisexual, that means I’m only attracted once I’m in love with you” doesn’t tell WHO you’re attracted to, but only HOW you’re attracted to them.
So what if you’re gay or straight or whatever but only attracted once you know the person well?
So fucking what?
It doesn’t make you special. You don’t fucking need a special word for it.
http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/80992-is-demisexual-even-a-real-sexual-orientation/
You're comparing something coming up with a name for their inability to love anyone they haven't forked an emotional bond with.
I think that's stupid and is retarding the mental evolution of the human race.
I think demisexuality is good.
Love at first sight shouldn't happen, because you're Lilly just falling for the persons looks.
ITS NOT A MENTAL PROBLEM TO SIMPLY COME UP WITH A NAME TO CALL WHAT YOU FEEL
Oh you're happy? That's a mental disorder!!1!1 there's no such thing as happiness1!!1!
That's how stupid you sound.
People categorizing themselves as demisexual is not hurting you, it's not affecting you, nor is it hurting us as a race, you're just too butthurt and lazy to add an extra word to your vocabulary so instead you fight against it, no matter how many people feel what demisexiality is by definition; nothing but the inability to love someone without forming an emotional bond with them first.
What isuck is saying is that demisexual isn't a separate sexuality, it's just a word that means you won't fuck just anybody, you need an emotional connection first, which is, like, normal, isn't it? Am I right?
Slide is fun.
I guess...
You go one way for straight
You sit going no where for asexual
But like ??? On the horse metaphor