"Out of respect and loyalty to my boyfriend I hereby solemnly swear to make no contact of any sort, whether physical, vocal or digital, with the males of our species, who make up roughly 50% of the global population."
K den.
If your boyfriend thinks of you having conversations with the opposite sex will end up putting your relationship in jeopardy, you need to reevaluate yourselves and your relationship.
Agreed 100% but judging by the obnoxiously desperate "hiiiii ;)" I can tell that Alex was obviously trying to get into the girl's pants. She saw through it and automatically went for the "I have a boyfriend" excuse.
Funny thing is that the same guys (I'm talking about fuckbois now) who will call you a bitch for saying you have a boyfriend will also call you a bitch or something for not saying it right away because you were "leading them on". But in my experience those fuckbois are rare and most guys are reasonable beings who will just back off when you tell them you're taken.
He wasn't flamboyant anymore when he realized he won't get what he wanted.
Which is why I concluded he's a fuckboi – pretends to be super nice at first but once he realizes he can't have the girl he wants, he shows his true colours which aren't very pretty.
You must be using a different set of optics because he just replied that he said hi, not let's fuck but okay. I guess whenever some woman says hiiii to my husband she is a horrid slut who wants to man grab him and I must protect him from leaving me and our two kids. Because all women who say hi in a warmer tone then switch to neutral or cold after being brushed off without any civility are whores just looking for a sugar daddy. Wait....that's just a blanket statement and not true for woman that says hello. I guess those blanke statements only apply to men. Wait...that sexist. Let's just agree to disagree because I refuse to apply stereotypes based the information given above.
My point is that his rhetoric lost all of its "flamboyance". If he wrote the other messages that way as well, I'd be totally okay with it. But since he got a pretty serious tone afterwards, I concluded that he was just using a certain rhetoric to appeal more interesting.
Uh, yes? Not getting what you want is no excuse for behaving like a tool...
He isn't behaving as a tool. Thats the whole issue. And if someone was as impolite to not return a hello and just assumed you wanted to fuck them, you might loose your good humor as well.
K den.
Funny thing is that the same guys (I'm talking about fuckbois now) who will call you a bitch for saying you have a boyfriend will also call you a bitch or something for not saying it right away because you were "leading them on". But in my experience those fuckbois are rare and most guys are reasonable beings who will just back off when you tell them you're taken.
Which is why I concluded he's a fuckboi – pretends to be super nice at first but once he realizes he can't have the girl he wants, he shows his true colours which aren't very pretty.
Uh, yes? Not getting what you want is no excuse for behaving like a tool...