Yes I am innocent, and thank you punchmunchkin for clarifying. I'd heard of hickies but I didn't know what they looked like. I once accidentally got red facepaint on my neck and my friend accused me of having a hickie, so I thought they were red.
I might just be ill informed or odd but what exactly is the appeal in hickies? Like what part of sucking on someone's collarbone contribute to a sensual activity
It's kind of a dominance thing. I think it's just satisfying for the person giving the hickey to look at it and say "I did that. This is my significant other. Not anyone else's." I wouldn't enjoy it , but hey, some people like BDSM. Same sort of principle.
No I don't think the act of giving one is the leading factor, I think the sucking and biting is pleasurable. It's pleasure with a little sting, pain is close to pleasure and those who aren't into full BDSM like the contrast
Who would know!!!