I want my crush because she makes me smile, she's there for me, and I want her to be happy no matter what happens. She's a wonderful human being and I don't know what I'd do without her.
We've been friends for 5 years now, and she's told me she has feelings for me, but she's too scared of ruining our friendship if we break up or something. I wish I could tell her that she's too important to me to let anything happen to us.
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· 8 years ago
dude, was friend-zoned for 5 years. we are married now. we have seen each other at our worse. sometimes knowing that you are compatible as friends means you are compatible in a relationship. just make sure it isn't just lust, that even with sex out of the question that you still want to be with her. we dated for 5 years, were engaged for 4 and have been married for 3. i couldn't see me with anyone else. i was at the "like a brother" stage. try this out: tell her you want to try to act out a relationship for a month, nothing more than playing along. let her know it will be a hands-off relationship for the month. it wont go into the intimate. try it out and see how it feels. after that, figure out if you want to go for real. remember. go at HER pace. it is her body, it is her rules. never go over that line.
if you want to be with someone, that it pains you to ever be separated. if you think of anyone in the world you could be with, and their the one. if you can think that even in a horrible deformating accident, that even if you couldn't have sex anymore, that you would still be with them. if you think hard and realize you are not just trying to convince yourself. that is love. i don't like placebo effects. i try to think of every possibility and make sure i am not fooling myself. i am straight as can be, but i thought to myself "if she had a penis..." i came to the conclusion that i would be gay. that is love.
excuse me but there's like about 201258725457 forms of love and defining it like this is ... p. dumb. i'd say 'childish' but i'm certain children know better.
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· 8 years ago
Maybe not, but meeting someone who you find attractive, smart, and who doesn't rely on you for income certainly helps.
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