Oh, god no. Sexting isn't my bag, but I have yet to have any of my girlfriends' - uh... boyfriends? Dates? Whatever you call "the guy you're seeing sometimes but sure as hell ain't serious about" - pick up on it when irl she's sitting there bitching at me to hold my foot still so she can polish my nails. Also, if you're sexting any of the women I hang out with, she ain't the only one reading it. So warn her before you send dick pics, cause otherwise, there's a whole gaggle of women who know what your junk looks like.
You have no idea how accurate this is until you're th a girl
I was sexting my now ex, handling my friend's relationship issue and watching Phineas and Ferb and eating ice cream
My fav part there is watching P and F with ice cream
And eventually, he came, my friend's relationship was saved and I finished the whole series along with my snack
The actual issue for most of us, I think, is that it's REALLY fucking hard, esp if you're not in a long term relationship, to get a guy to do/text something that you actually find arousing as opposed to just things that only HE finds arousing? Cause nobody ever clued them in that they're supposed to *listen* to their partners. So 90% of the time it's not worth the energy to sit there and micromanage him until he grows a damn clue.
Tbh as a dude I would have no idea what to sext. Like... no. fucking. clue. it would just feel weird. Also how am I supposed to sext with my hands down my pants. I don't like sexting.
I get that part - it's why sexting usually isn't so much my bag, especially since I have a grudge against phone keyboards. If you are going to be in a relationship, I guess, the thing to do is kind of talk ahead of time about what you and your partner do/don't find arousing in text form - I mean, waaaaay too much effort for a hookup, because talking about what turns you off is usually super awkward, but if it's a long-term thing, y'know, you've already got that part out of the way and then you know what you're doing when you're horny.
You'd probably be good sexter, Poopun.
I have a feeling like it's the guys that think they're God's Gift that are ruining things for men in general.
My advice is, communication is key. I know it's cliche, but what can I say?
I was sexting my now ex, handling my friend's relationship issue and watching Phineas and Ferb and eating ice cream
My fav part there is watching P and F with ice cream
And eventually, he came, my friend's relationship was saved and I finished the whole series along with my snack
Take THAT, equality!
I have a feeling like it's the guys that think they're God's Gift that are ruining things for men in general.
My advice is, communication is key. I know it's cliche, but what can I say?