YOU HAVE NO FREAKING IDEA!!
I am so scratched up from our kittens I look like I cut myself.
This actually happen I was at walmart and the woman behind me tapes me on my back and looks at me all sad. She asks me if everything is ok. I say yeah Im fine how you? She says no honey nothing is all fine if it was you wouldn't be doing that. Is everything ok at home? Do you need help? She points at my arms and I just think OGOD. I explain no I have a shit load of new kittens and this is what happens when I feed them they act like savage starving dogs even though they are given food 3 times a day. She just goes sure sure and hands me her card and tells me if you ever need to talk to a kind ear give me a call. SHE WAS A FREAKING PSYCHIATRIST!
After that I dont go into public unless I have long sleeves. Which sucks seeing as it is summer.
If I were you I wouldn't be ashamed of them. I mean, you know the truth behind the cuts, so who cares? People who DO cut shouldn't be ashamed of their scars either, I think of them as battle scars that I proudly wear to show people what I survived through. Not to mention, that kind lady was only trying to be helpful, I would've been touched honestly.
O I know just I rather cover them so people dont ask like that again. It was really embarrassing because she didnt just whisper she kind of announced it. And my husband suffers from extreme anxity so when I go out it is just easier to cover up my arms.
But the thing is I suffer from a weird skin problem that makes wounds last long time. A simple scratch tends to beccome larger and when gone I get a tanned scar. So my arms look like bad.
I had that problem too when my cat was a kitten. If she played to rough, scratched, or bit me; I'd flick her on the fore head or scruff her. Ok, before you flip out I was very very gentle with her. I was teaching her what was ok and what was not. It didn't take long but she learned not to bite or scratch people. She would still sneak attack people, and play bite; but she never bit hard or used her claws. She turned out to be a wild child as an adult but she was very gentle with people.
We spank our pets as if they are little kids lol always on the butt lol.
We never did the back or head. But there were times we tap its nose. Like when it try to steal a quick tap on the nose.
I am so scratched up from our kittens I look like I cut myself.
This actually happen I was at walmart and the woman behind me tapes me on my back and looks at me all sad. She asks me if everything is ok. I say yeah Im fine how you? She says no honey nothing is all fine if it was you wouldn't be doing that. Is everything ok at home? Do you need help? She points at my arms and I just think OGOD. I explain no I have a shit load of new kittens and this is what happens when I feed them they act like savage starving dogs even though they are given food 3 times a day. She just goes sure sure and hands me her card and tells me if you ever need to talk to a kind ear give me a call. SHE WAS A FREAKING PSYCHIATRIST!
After that I dont go into public unless I have long sleeves. Which sucks seeing as it is summer.
But the thing is I suffer from a weird skin problem that makes wounds last long time. A simple scratch tends to beccome larger and when gone I get a tanned scar. So my arms look like bad.
We never did the back or head. But there were times we tap its nose. Like when it try to steal a quick tap on the nose.